Sunday, May 3, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 05-02-2026: Walmart Order, Relearning What I'd Forgotten, *Celluloid Closet*

 1. Last night I submitted an order to Walmart for curbside pickup and around 8:00 this morning I picked up, meaning we now have a good supply of produce, cat food, milk, and other staple items and the order included products that I dropped off at the Elks food pantry. 

2. It had been quite a while since I cast anything from my laptop to our Vizio. This evening, Debbie and I decided to rent a movie on YouTube and when I tried to make it play on the television, I couildn't do it. I had totally forgotten the steps necessary. So, I put on an instructional video and relearned the simple process and we were back in business! 

3. When the movie was over, neither Debbie nor I could remember what we'd been talking about that led us to want to watch the 1995 documentary Celluloid Closet, a study of how gay, lesbian, and trans characters were portrayed in the movies over the course of the 20th century. The movie featured clips from a wide array of movies and numerous interviews with screenwriters, actors, and others who provided expert commentary on this subject. 

I don't know if Debbie had seen this movie more than once. I know I had which is just to say that I had remembered it as a superb documentary and I had that uplifting experience this evening of finding the movie even better than my very positive memories of it. 

Now my hope is that I always remember the easy steps necessary to cast stuff from my laptop to the television. About an hour ago, I brought up a YouTube video of the London Symphony Orchestra performing Brahm's 4th Symphony, not only to enjoy the music, but to make sure I still remembered the next day how tp cast YouTube from the laptop onto the television! 

And I did! 

Saturday, May 2, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 05-01-2026: Breakfast with Rooster at Rooster's, A Fun May in Spokane Coming Up, Debbie's Travel Plans

 1. For many in and around the Silver Valley, Ed's name is Rooster, a nickname he picked up many many years ago. It's only fitting, then, that Mike, Ed, and I enjoy ending our stay at the Wildhorse Resort and Casino by stopping off at Rooster's Country Kitchen in Pendleton as we start our drive back home. 

We had a delicious breakfast and good conversation at Rooster's. I was especially happy with my pot roast hash, scrambled egg, and biscuit. If I were a younger man, I could have eaten the entire generously loaded plate of food, but I'm getting old and I decided I wanted to drive back to the Silver Valley feeling comfortable, not stuffed. 

Turns out that was a great decision. 

2. For many many months starting in 2020 and then again for several months after kidney transplant surgery in 2024, I was very cautious about going out into the world, especially in places with a lot of people. Eventually, I eased up on the caution and as I started to widen my world a bit, Debbie asked me several times what I wanted to do at this stage of my retirement. 

"Don't you want to travel? Aren't there places you want to go?' 

My answer was always the same: I'd like to go see friends in Seattle and Eugene. 

I'm hoping that will be possible sooner than later.  

I have decided I want to stay fairly close to home as Copper ages in case he begins to need special attention the way Luna did when she began to die. Copper is shrinking, losing weight. His appetite is off and on. He seems comfortable and he is strong enough to, say, jump up on my bed, but I'm keeping a close eye on him. I've seen several other cats slowly progress toward dying and I'm seeing some signs in Copper's appearance and habits that he might be doing the same. 

I'm also mindful of staying home with Gibbs when Debbie goes away to help out family members or to be a part of celebrations. 

As 2025 became 2026, I decided that a great way to enjoy my retirement would be to make trips to Spokane. I'd go to classical music concerts whether the Spokane Symphony, Spokane String Quartet, Gonzaga Symphony, or other ensembles. I'd go to lectures. I'd go to art exhibits. Debbie and I decided we'd go to Auntie's Bookstore on the first Tuesday of every month at 6 p.m. and be a part of the store's Science and Nature Book Club. 

To top it all off, I proposed to Christy and Carol toward the end of 2025 that we think about making all twelve of our 2026 monthly sibling outings trips to Spokane. They agreed. It's been awesome -- we've gone to the Garland District, Whitworth University, places on Monroe Street, the Spokane Falls, St. John's Cathedral, Cannon Park, and we've sampled different ice cream shops along with different cafes and restaurants. 

Today, I wanted to be sure I knew what all I'd be doing in Spokane during the month of May whether alone or with Debbie or with my sisters. 

It's going to be great month: sibling outing to the Spokane Night Market and Street Fair, two symphony performances, a lecture, one string quartet concert, an evening with author Craig Johnson, book club at Auntie's, and who knows what I might do on May 11th in addition to having an appointment at the transplant clinic for evaluating how I'm doing on the two year anniversary of the transplant. 

3. One last terrific event in May: Debbie recently decided to fly to Chicago on May 29th to join other family members for Rosie's first birthday party.  Rosie is our niece Samantha's daughter. Debbie already had plans to be in New York in June. That plan won't change -- she'll just have a fun time with family in Illinois before making her trip to New York. 

I'm very happy this all worked out and I'll definitely find ways to occupy my time while holding down our little fort in Kellogg. 

Thursday, April 30, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-30-2026: Breakfast at the Oregon Trail Deli, Relaxing in My Room, Spinning Reels

1. All of us who've been hanging out at the Wildhorse Resort and Casino this week buzzed about thirty miles east of the resort to Meacham, OR in order to do eat at the awesome Oregon Trail Store and Deli. The couple who operate this business put out great food. We've had superb breakfasts at the Oregon Trail and fantastic lunches, too. I indulged in today's breakfast special and enjoyed a platter of biscuits and gravy with sausage links. 

Jim headed back to Nampa today so we bade him farewell, very happy that he made the trip up and that we got to spend time together. 

Terry also headed back and I rode back to the resort with him and we know we'll see each other again pretty soon, possibly in May and for certain in June. 

2. I had catching up to do this morning and this afternoon. I needed to blog and work puzzles, the things I usually do first thing in the morning at home. I also napped after eating such a great meal at the Oregon Trail and having had a so-so night's sleep.

3. Ed, Don, Mike, and I got together in the afternoon at the Wildhorse's Sports Bar and had a good session of solid yakkin'. We agreed we were unsure when or if any one of us would want an evening meal, so we agreed we'd all be on our own. 

I spun reels for a while and then ate a half a deli sandwich and then spun reels some more. It was fun to play a ton of different games and by the time I quit and ate some ice cream at the deli and headed to my room, I was happy that my luck ran pretty good. 

Three Beautiful Things 04-29-2026: Breakfast Together, Some Pendleton Streets, Steakhouse Dinner

 1. Before we went our separate ways afterward, Jim, Don, Mike, Terry, Ed, and I met for breakfast in the Traditions restaurant and yakked about all kinds of things over a delicious breakfast served by a witty and fake-cranky server who made us laugh and we returned the favor. 

2. My separate way was to return to my room and solve puzzles and blog before I spent some time spinning reels. Later on, I drove to Pendleton and spent time trying to get a better sense of the lay of the land. I haven't spent enough time just getting to know Pendleton better and made some progress today. 

3. We old men gathered again at the resort's Plateau Steakhouse for a delicious dinner together and more conversation and storytelling. We enjoyed our meals and continued to learn more about what we've all been up to. We also raised a toast to our great friend Bruce Larsen and had fun telling stories about him and remembering the great things about him that made our long friendships with him so enjoyable and significant. 

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-28-2026: Breakfast at Dave's Bar and Grill, A Fantastic Country Drive, Dinner with Colette

1. I picked up Ed around 6:30 this morning and we beelined straight from Kingston to Spokane Valley for breakfast at Dave's Bar and Grill. I hadn't eaten at Dave's since last October and it all came back to me how much I enjoy this place. First of all, it's a morning hangout for codgers like Ed and me and so, as before, we sat and let snippets of great bs come our way and even though we were near the intersection of East Sprague and Pines Road, it felt like we were at any one of the Silver Valley's bs joints -- like The Lounge, for example. 

Then the excellent quality of the food came back to me, especially the fried potatoes covered in gravy. 

I finished the plate of potatoes and gravy, scrambled eggs, sausage patty, and English muffins with strawberry jam and knew I wouldn't need to eat anything until dinner around 5:30. 

Dave's Bar and Grill sent us off to Oregon nourished and happy. 

2. We drove from Spokane to Colfax to Dayton, Waitsburg, and Dixie, continuing on through Walla Walla and Milton-Freewater, and ended our drive just after noon at the Wildhorse Resort and Casino.

It was a spectacular drive. We enjoyed being off the freeway and the variety of landscapes, much of it farm land.

Upon arrival, I took a nap, started to get caught up on word puzzles and blogging, and headed downstairs where I found Ed, Mike, Don, and Jim relaxing at the lobby bar. I spun a few reels and then returned to my room to get ready for dinner. 

3. As we try to do every time I come to Pendleton, Colette and I met at the Thai Crystal and we enjoyed delicious food and nearly three hours of scintillating conversation about Colette's work, her family, classical music, books, podcasts, and writers. 

Our conversation uplifted me. 

When I returned to the resort, Ed, Mike, Terry, Don, and Jim were enjoying whiskey time in Ed's room. I couldn't join in the whiskey sipping, but I did join in the conversation and we Silver Valley boys had a lot to talk about from the past and the present. 

We couldn't help but feel the presence  of our lifelong friend Lars. His death is fresh in our minds and on our hearts, but I think we took some comfort in telling stories about him and enjoying great memories.  

Tuesday, April 28, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-27-2026: Packing, Talking, Stopping

 1.  On Tuesday, April 28th, six of us guys raised in Kellogg will get together for three nights of fun at the Wildhorse Resort and Casino and in the nearby area.  Here's who will join together: Ed Hanson, Mike Stafford, Terry Turner, Don Windisch, Jim Lewis, and I. 

It took me all day to pack because I am fastidious about not forgetting anything whether clothes, electronics, medicine, stuff for the bathroom, etc.  I'm less likely to make mistakes if I don't rush. 

2. When Debbie and I participate in cultural events, it usually takes a day before we can really talk about it. We talked some on Sunday about our experience hearing Verdi's Requiem, but we got into it in much more detail today. I learned a lot listening to Debbie and am really glad we don't push each other to comment on these things when the experience is fresh. We both need time. 

3. Michael Tilson Thomas, the recently deceased giant of classical music, especially American, said that "the most important thing about music is what happens when it stops . . ."

I''m going to leave his insight uncommented on, hoping you'll ponder it. 

Monday, April 27, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-26-2026: Hearing Verdi's *Requiem*, More of Verdi's *Requiem*?, The Snake Pit

1. To prepare for the combined efforts of the Spokane Symphony Orchestra, Spokane Symphony Chorale, and four visiting soloists (Caroline Corrales, soprano; Linda Baird, mezzo-soprano; Adam Diegel, tenor; and Mark Walters, baritone) to perform Giuseppe Verdi's monumental Messa da requiem, Debbie and I attended an hour long lecture on Thursday, presented by the symphony's conductor, James Lowe and then today we listened to the pre-concert lecture given by Lowe and the chorale director, Dr. Meg Stohlman. I also did some preparatory reading and note taking. 

This slim amount of preparation helped me to a degree take in the Requiem at today's matinee performance, but I almost immediately recognized that nothing I might have done would have prepared me for the sublime power of Verdi's composition nor for the overwhelming energy of a ninety-seven member choir, an expanded orchestra, and the four soloists exploring the terror, pleading, glory, awe, hopefulness, quaking, and overall awe of death and of facing the trepidation of the fires of eternity and the beauty of eternal light.

Verdi patterned this requiem after the Roman Catholic Requiem Mass and wrote it after the death of the great Italian writer Alessandro Manzoni. While on the face of it, Verdi's masterpiece can be seen as exploring Manzoni's own fears that the misadventures of his youth would never be forgiven, in actuality, Verdi makes music out of universal fears and hopes and uncertainty about our morality and what might follow death.

2. When the concert ended and after the audience showered vigorous applause upon all the performers and the two conductors and the Martin Woldson Theater at the Fox began to empty out, Debbie and I sat silent until the theater was nearly empty. 

As we left the Fox and walked to the car, Debbie said, "You know how when we drove to Kellogg from New York (in 2021) and planned our trip around dog friendly breweries? How about if we start looking for performances of Verdi's Requiem and how about if we travel to listen to it whenever and wherever we can?" 

I loved that idea.  

3. Being the mortals we are, while we had been spiritually challenged, blown away, and nourished by this afternoon's concert, we also needed to satisfy our physical hunger. Neither of us could remember the last time we ate at the Snake Pit in Kingston/Enaville and we decided to give it a try. 

It was a solid choice. I don't remember which burger Debbie ordered, but she happily ate half of it and half of her tots at the Snake Pit and took the rest home. I very much enjoyed my steak sandwich on a fresh hoagie roll and the accompanying fries. Our server was efficient, friendly, and witty, a delightful combination! 

By the time we walked in the Snake Pit and sat down, we were coming back to Earth again and while Verdi will live with us for a long time, his Requiem no longer dominated our thoughts and feelings, no longer had struck us nearly dumb. 



Sunday, April 26, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-25-2026: Cardboard, Pizza Party, Preparing for Verdi's *Requiem*

1. I mean it's just cardboard. Why does it make me so happy to get cardboard boxes out of the garage and the house? I don't know, but I made a quick trip to the transfer station today and got rid of about fifteen boxes. I returned home inexplicably giddy!

2. Carol and Christy are at Priest Lake for a women's weekend with friends and we invited Paul over for pizza. We enjoyed a spinach/feta and a Hawaiian pizza along with some wings and had fun yakkin' together about topics ranging from learning French to watching videos of people reacting to hearing songs like "25 or 6 to 4" for the first time. 

3. I spent time today reading more about Verdi's Requiem in preparation for Sunday afternoon's performance of Verdi's take on this Catholic mass. It will be given by the Spokane Symphony and Chorale.  

Saturday, April 25, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-24-2026: Where's That Book?, Tacos at the Elks, Yakkin' at The Lounge

 1. Before I go to sleep, it's best if I do not read material on either my laptop or phone. I'd like to read Lonesome Dove, but it's a big book, one I handle better sitting up. 

I've been wanting to read Jess Walter's latest novel, So Far Gone before sleeping, but I couldn't find it. Debbie and I are at the beginning of a slow project reimagining the old Vizio room and that's meant having books in boxes and unorganized in other ways. 

I went through all the boxes looking for So Far Gone and then I discovered I'd put it at the bottom of a pile on a bottom shelf hidden by a stack of boxes. 

I don't know what I was thinking of when I put that book there, but I've let go of that mystery. 

Tonight I read the first few pages of the book and I'm pumped to move forward and very happy that I'll relax at bedtime with a good book and not screens. 

2. I joined Ed and Nancy at a table at today's Taco Night at the Elks and before long Pam and Frank joined us. We enjoyed building our tacos and talked about a bunch of stuff: nurses, surgeons, current KHS band performances, camping, and a hot of other topics. 

3. We ended our evening at The Lounge. Debbie had been there for a while and was having a great time talking with different people at the bar and at a smattering of tables. When Ed and Nancy left, I went to the bar and had a fun conversation with Simon, during which Ryan walked in and told us about his new job. Juli Z. and I then had a serious talk about her late brother, John, a close friend of mine at NIC, and her son, Jared. Julie wants Jared and me to meet. Fitz and I talked about retirement and fantasy baseball and Cas and I reviewed fantasy baseball action as well. 

Debbie loved all the conversations she had, including at the table where Ed, Nancy, and I sat and I enjoyed yakking with the people I got to see, too. 

It was another fine time in uptown Kellogg. 

Friday, April 24, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-23-2026: James Lowe Lecture on Verdi's *Requiem*, Exhibits at the MAC, Back to Ocean's Depth

 1. Debbie and I went to Spokane today. It turned out we overloaded our minds with stimulation, in a very good way. We arrived home very tired but invigorated and with a lot on our minds. 

Our day began at Spokane's Northwest Museum of Arts and Culture (MAC) at noon. Spokane Symphony conductor and music director James Lowe gave a nearly one hour lecture on the single piece the symphony will perform Saturday evening and Sunday afternoon (when we'll go): Giuseppe Verdi's Requiem, first performed in 1874. 

The way Lowe developed context for the Requiem through looking at the history of Italy and the story of Italian novelist Alessandro Manzoni, whose death inspired Verdi to compose this requiem. He then played and commented upon excerpts from the Requiem, helping us better understand the range of emotions Verdi explores about death, the way the orchestra and chorale and vocal soloists work together as Verdi's masterpiece develops, and his view that Verdi wrote the Requiem for us, for us living mortals, as a way to move us to examine our own feelings, ideas, and beliefs about being mortal, presenting the fact of mortality as a reality that continually rises up in our minds and one that we deal with continually as people we know die.

I think this was the third time I've gone to one of these lectures. 

Each time, listening to James Lowe and the ways he integrates history, linguistics, spiritual experience, literature, art, movies, cuisine, and other subjects outside of music into his lectures, it takes me back to my days at Whitworth College where I was joyfully introduced to the wonders of interdisciplinary studying and thinking and began to learn about the ways the different kinds of liberal arts connect with each other. 

So in a way I find moving, a way that goes way beyond nostalgic sentimentality, listening to James Lowe makes me feel like the eager to learn 20 year I was when I enrolled at Whitworth and my life expanded into a love for the liberal arts in the broadest sense of that word and entered into a lifelong source of joy and stimulation. 

2. Lowe ended his lecture and I couldn't move right away. Luckily, Debbie and I were seated in the middle of our row and no one needed us to move, so I could just sit and let what I'd just experienced sink in. 

After a few minutes, we left the MAC's auditorium and walked over the MAC's galleries where we wanted to look at two exhibits: Brick by Brick: We Built this City, a display of seven iconic Spokane buildings constructed to scale with LEGO bricks and James Lavadour: Land of Origin, a retrospective of five decades of Lavadour's paintings and prints exploring the power and beauty of Eastern Oregon landscapes. 

The LEGO exhibit was astonishing for its craft and ingenuity. I never built anything with LEGOs. Our grandson, David, was obsessed with them as a boy. Through David I witnessed how far the LEGO world had come -- LEGO sets were available for everything from Monet paintings to Marvel characters to castles and floral bouquets. 

Honestly, though, what the builders who created these replicas of places like St. John's Cathedral, the Davenport Hotel, the Spokesman-Review building and others pushed my mind way beyond anything I had imagined possible to do with LEGOs. 

James Lavadour's painting exploded off the walls of the MAC. They are not representational works (they don't look like photographs), but are expressive pieces that endow the landscapes with power, spirit, fire, mythology, and other ways that Lavadour experiences them. 

In a very positive way, Debbie and I found this exhibit overwhelming. The paintings are large, presented in sets, like of nine paintings, and numerous works are on display. 

I hope we'll return. I want to feel the power of these paintings again, but, as today, in short amounts of time. 

I bought the coffee table book that was published to accompany this exhibit and look forward to learning more about Lavadour and his work from it. 

3. We lunched at The Elk and then tested the limits of how much beauty we could absorb in an afternoon by going to the same exhibit I visited on Wednesday at the Chase Gallery. 

So, Debbie and I both entered the world of life deep in the ocean through paintings, videos, and sculptures. 

We both enjoyed these works, but we didn't last long.

Our energy ran out. 

We'd taken in a lot and reached our limit, but what an awesome way to get worn out. 





Thursday, April 23, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-22-2026: My Skin is Healthy, A Bagel and a Transplant Open House, Under the Ocean Art at City Hall

 1. I have twice a year dermatology appointments at North Idaho Dermatology in CdA because, being a transplant recipient, a take medications that make my skin more susceptible to cancer. Nicole Rock examined me head to toe and found no problems and said something, in her most professional dermatological voice, that I don't ever remember being told before: "You have fantastic skin." 

That no problems have developed is a huge relief to me, but, simultaneously, it makes perfect sense. 

I hate being out in the sun and, when I am, I cover my skin, wear a broad-rimmed hat, and, when at my best (ahem), put on sunscreen. 

I used to enjoy the sun a lot, but that enjoyment eroded and now has disappeared over the last several years. 

A good development, as it turns out, and I'll do my best to remain vigilant. 

2. I've been to The Scoop at 25th and Monroe in Spokane twice in the last six weeks or so for ice cream. 

But, Hidden Bagel was closed. 

Hidden Bagel shares business space with The Scoop and closes at 1 p.m.

Today, I buzzed straight to Hidden Bagel as soon as I arrived in Spokane and enjoyed a sesame seed bagel with cream cheese. It sustained me for my visit to Providence Sacred Heart. 

I made a quick trip, first, to the pharmacy and took care of a couple of very simple things I needed help with regarding a prescription and my change in payment method.

Then I attended an open house at the transplant clinic, an event in recognition of this being Donate Life Month.  

My experience over the last eight years with this transplant program has been, without fail, positive. 

I enjoyed being able to tell some of the staff how much I have appreciated all they've done to help me navigate this transplant and I enjoyed being in the same room with other transplant recipients who also seemed happy and who also looked like they were getting along well (as I am). 

3. If you read this blog with any regularity, you know that Debbie and I go often to Spokane and recently we decided to participate in Auntie's Bookstore's Science/Nature Book Club. One member of the book club, Meghan Jones, creates paintings and is part of an art collective, Unseen Ocean Collective, with three other women. 

Currently, the collective has an exhibit at the Chase Gallery, located in the basement of Spokane's City Hall, entitled, America's Hidden Coral Gardens: The Fine Art of the Deep Sea. 

I wanted to see Meghan Jones' paintings and the other work on display and so I visited the gallery.  I found the exhibit invigorating. I loved these paintings, videos, and sculptures of life deep in the ocean. I especially enjoyed the different styles of Kierstin Keller's paintings vis a vis Meghan Jones' works and what Nilanjana Dass explored of the deep sea's beauty in her sculptures. 

I drove home feeling very happy. My skin is in good shape. I found a good bagel. I'm in good shape with the pharmacy. I'm under the care of a solid clinic. And Spokane has a handsome art gallery right outside the City Council Chambers in the basement of City Hall and is exhibiting wonderful art making worlds profoundly remote from us visible.

 

Tuesday, April 21, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-21-2026: Editing, Reading, Comforting

 1. I did a little editing on a first draft of an obituary for Bruce Larsen. I don't know when it will be sent out or published, but the process is underway. Stu got it going. 

2. I am determined (but I've been determined before about this!) to give all the energy I have for reading over the Lonesome Dove and not get sidetracked like I have about eighty times before. I made progress today and being back into this book rekindles my admiration for Larry McMurtry's brilliant writing and storytelling. 

3. A little editing. A good session reading. Topped it all off with comfort: Debbie whipped up a simple dinner of tomato soup, grilled cheese sandwiches, and an endive salad. 

Then a surprise. Umpqua Triple Chocolate ice cream suddenly showed up and I couldn't and didn't resist. 

Three Beautiful Things 04-20-2026: Transplant Checklist, Big Questions, Granola Bars

1. Recently, the transplant clinic sent me a letter with a list of things that need to be done as my transplant anniversary (May 11th) approaches.  I'm in good shape with most of the items on the list. I'm up to date on my flu shot, pneumonia vax, colonoscopy, dermatology evaluation, bone scan, and dental check ups. 

I am going to Sacred Heart on May 4th for labs and I wrote to Nurse Jenn today hoping I can also have a chest x-ray and kidney ultrasound performed that day, too. 

If it works out, then I will be all ready for my May 11th appointment at the clinic with everything on that list taken care of. 

2. Paul came over and did some around the house jobs for Debbie and, as he was leaving, he said, "Oh! Before I go, I have a theological question." So, for the next half an hour or so Debbie, Paul, and I discussed Genesis 1, a calm, insightful, and searching conversation. When it comes to discussing theology, the three of us are much more interrogative than declarative. 

3. While in New York, Debbie made granola bars for the household, a handy item to tuck in a carry out lunch or eat as a snack at home. Debbie made a batch here in Kellogg and these delicious bars elevated our already terrific store of homemade food items we've been enjoying. 

Monday, April 20, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-19-2026: Breakfast at Sam's with T. Turner and Alex, Pork Loin Family Dinner, Carol and Paul Create and Unforgettable Day

 1. Terry Turner and his friend Alex had been in Missoula and on some nearby waterways for Trout Unlimited meetings and some fishing. They left Missoula this morning and the three of us met at Sam's here in Kellogg for breakfast. It was fun talking about stuff like fish habitat protection, college basketball and football, and other major topics. 

2. Christy hosted tonight's family dinner and built our menu around a marinated pork loin she roasted accompanied by homemade applesauce. Christy also fixed garlic roasted potatoes and Carol contributed fried corn and Debbie made a delicious endive salad. We started our dinner with a delicious bread with olives baked in it and flourless crackers, both enhanced by pesto or a garlic spread. For dessert, Christy baked a no sugar applesauce cake with bourbon raisins. 

3. When Debbie and I arrived at Christy's, I started right in asking Carol and Paul questions about their trip to Spokane on Saturday with three of the students they work with. 

I listened to what Carol and Paul had to say and thought again and again how fortunate these three students were on Saturday. 

I have to believe they'll never forget this day and as they grow older will realize what generous and imaginative teachers Carol and Paul are. 

Carol and Paul took them to the Museum of Arts and Culture in Spokane primarily to see an exhibition entitled, "Brick by Brick: We Built This City". Here's the deal: local My Own Creation builders brought seven Spokane landmarks to life by creating detailed scale replicas of them using LEGO bricks. On display are replicas of the Spokesman-Review tower, Davenport Hotel, the Great Northern Clock and Radio Flyer Wagon from Riverfront Park, Spokane Falls along with the Monroe Street Bridge and the Washington Water Works Building, the Spokane County Courthouse, the Cathedral of St. John the Evangelist, and the Campbell House. 

Each student "adopted" one of the LEGO creations as their own to learn more about and Carol and Paul took the students to the actual places they "adopted": they visited the Spokane Falls, the Davenport Hotel, and St. John's Cathedral. 

At the museum, the students also got to view an exhibition entitled, "James Lavadour: Land of Origin", a five-decade retrospective of this artists' paintings exploring his deep connection with Eastern Oregon landscapes. 

I think they also peeked in on "The Davenport Legacy", an exhibition dedicated to the history of the Davenport Hotel. 

And where did Paul and Carol take their students for lunch? The Old Spaghetti Factory, yet another unforgettable way to acquaint these youngsters with more Spokane history! This longtime popular restaurant was founded in 1969. 

On a personal note, I'll always remember The Old Spaghetti Factory as the restaurant four of us went to after watching All the President's Men in 1976, my senior year at Whitworth, and discussed the movie over plates of pasta and glasses of affordable wine. A great memory! 

Ah, what the heck -- one more personal note. 

It can't hurt! 

Carol, Paul, and their students left Spokane close to the time Debbie and I arrived there.

I enjoy the idea that all seven of us had a most memorable time in Spokane on April 18th. 

If you read the blog post I put up yesterday, you know that Debbie and I loved the Get Lit/Northwest Passages event we attended at The Bing and I think, at some level, it will live with us for a long time. 


Sunday, April 19, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-18-2026: Spokane and the Decades, Spokanealooza Part 1, Spokanealooza Part 2 at The Bing

1. From the time I was a little boy and our family visited my grandmother there, until now, I've, well, I've loved Spokane. To keep it brief, I loved our visits there, I loved going to ballgames and concerts in Spokane, I really loved going to school at Whitworth and I loved working at Whitworth in the Chaplain's Office and as an English instructor. 

Debbie lived in Spokane at different times in her life and for the nearly thirty years we've been friends, roommates, and spouses, she's told me great stories and we've made some fun tours, looking at landmarks from her life in Spokane and when she lived in Cheney. 

Needless to say, but I will anyway, I've enjoyed my regular (now less frequent) medical related trips to Spokane, most of them by myself, the fact that our monthly sibling outings are all happening in Spokane in 2026, and am really enjoying the trips Debbie and I have made (and have planned) together since Debbie returned home. 

2. Take, for example, our trip on Saturday, April 18th. 

We started our afternoon/evening Spokanealooza at Paradise Fibers, and Debbie found some yarn she was happy to purchase. 

We had plenty of time before tonight's main event and we scampered up to Trader Joe's on 29th and, among other things, purchased items so we could fulfill Christy's assignments to us for Sunday's family dinner. 

We wanted a light bite to eat and buzzed across South Spokane to Huckleberry's Natural Market at 926 S Monroe. We visited the 9th St. Bistro where Debbie made herself dinner at the salad bar and I had a turkey sandwich custom built. 

3. This weekend is the annual writers and literature festival in Spokane, Get Lit. 

Get Lit and Spokesman Review's community book club, Northwest Passages, collaborated to create the event we attended tonight. 

Tonight's event at The Bing featured Spokane author Jess Walter interviewing Portland writer and alt-country musician Willie Vlautin about his latest novel, The Left and the Lucky

It was a terrific hour. Vlautin talked about growing up in Reno, raised by his hard-working single mother and how, at a very young age, he began writing songs and later stories reflecting what he saw in the working class and underclass environment he grew up in and the feelings he experienced, and still does. 

He wasn't like most (or any) of the young guys at Reno High School. He loved to read. He hung a picture of John Steinbeck next to posters of The Clash and The Pogues in his bedroom.  He loved writing songs and listening to and making music. He loved writing and, together, music and writing became his life. 

He's been a longtime member of and songwriter for two bands: Richmond Fontaine (no longer together) and The Delines. 

The interview featured excerpts from two songs by The Delines: "Lil Earl" and "Christmas in Atlantis".

Neither one of us had heard of Willie Vlautin, even though he is not obscure. (This weekend he was interviewed by Scott Simon on National Public Radio.) 

We've decided, though, that if we don't have conflicts, we are going to every Northwest Passage night we can, whether we are ignorant or knowledgeable about the featured author. 

We loved being in a theater full of enthusiastic people cheering on the efforts of Get Lit and Northwest Passage.

As a bonus, we saw Teri, the leader of the Science/Nature Book Club we have joined at Auntie's Bookstore. We were all excited to see each other and it was fun, in a venue full of strangers to us, that we saw, talked to, and shared excitement with someone familiar to us. 

 

Friday, April 17, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-17-2026: Living Lighter, Ed's a Beer Pong Champ, Music in My Head

1. At Sunnyside Elementary School, instead of shooting a basketball into a hoop, I remember shooting through the triangle opening of a brace helping to secure the stability of a fire escape on the south side of the building. Remembering that, and period in our lives that Stu called a golden time, I responded that I have fun and enjoyable flashbacks to those years and have ditched the negative ones. As the day progressed, I realized I've ditched a lot of negative flashbacks along with the accompanying  painful feelings that used to rise up inside me. Those old feelings have, for the most part, dissolved. Being free of these feelings and focusing less and less on past grievances helps me live a lighter life. 

Almost all of my grievances these days are ones I direct at myself. 

Ditch those and I could join Scrooge and say, "I am light as a feather, I am as happy as an angel, I am as merry as a schoolboy. I am as giddy as a drunken man."

2. This afternoon at The Lounge, Ed told a great story about how he and his son Darren teamed up to conquer all comers at the Clearwater Casino in Lewiston and win last Saturday night's beer pong tournament. I could have told those challenging teams that when it comes to darts, pool, horseshoes, cribbage, poker, and now beer pong, Ed simply does not lose. 

3. When I began sometime in 2025 listening in earnest, like daily, to classical music, I hoped that I'd eventually start hearing different passages from different compositions in my head and be able to enjoy them even if the music wasn't playing. 

That's happening. 

Now I hope to go the next step and be able to identify the composer and the composition. 

Today I had what I think was a passage from Tchaikovsky's Violin Concerto in D Major play in my head, but I'm not sure. 

One day I hope to be sure. 

And, one day, I hope to have instant recall of passages in different pieces when I hear or read them mentioned or be able to instantly identify them when they come on the radio. 



Thursday, April 16, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-16-2026: Spreading the Word, Teamwork at Dinner, Trip to Pendleton -- It Won't Be Long

 1. Today I resumed efforts to make the Celebration of Life for Bruce Larsen a bit more widely known. I posted the date, time, and place on the Class of '72 Facebook page and the Class of '73 page as well. In the next little while, I am confident an obituary will get composed and published. I also sent out some personal messages to people who might not get the information on Facebook or via the group email I sent out. 

I'll post the details on this blog every seven to ten days even though I know that many people who read this blog are not from Kellogg and don't know Bruce.

But what can it hurt? 

Celebration of Life for Bruce Larsen

Date: June 13, 2026

Time: 1:00 p.m.

Place: Kellogg Elks Lodge, 202 McKinley Ave

2. Debbie subbed for a first grade teacher today and arrived home tired. She had a good day. Working with children, even when it goes well, is tiring. I don't think she has another sub date scheduled. This is in keeping with her plan to sub once in a while. She does it because she enjoys the children and enjoys being back at Pinehurst Elementary with the people she worked with. 

We teamed up on dinner. I made a pot of angel hair and Debbie made mixed olive oil, salt and pepper, minced garlic, red pepper flakes, and cherry tomatoes in a small bowl. She also grated some hard cheese and these ingredients worked beautifully on top of our pasta. 

3. Six of us will descend upon the Wildhorse Resort and Casino in about twelve days and the excitement of another trip to Pendleton began to rumble inside me today when Mike Stafford texted us to let us know he'd made reservations at Wildhorse's steak house, The Plateau. I'm nearly certain that Colette and I will meet for dinner in downtown Pendleton that week -- a tradition that we've enjoyed ever since Colette moved to Walla Walla.  

I'm getting stoked. 


Wednesday, April 15, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-15-2026: An Empty Day, I Help Debbie, Pork Stroganoff and Mashed Potatoes

1. Every so often, I seem to need a blank day, an empty day. Today was one:  no book reading, no classical music, no Winning Wednesday, some writing. I tended to my two fantasy baseball teams and did a load of laundry. 

2. I did, however, help Debbie. She subbed at Pinehurst Elementary for a half day. I drove her out. I picked up Gibbs from the groomer. I picked up Debbie after her work day ended and brought her home. 

3. Debbie had told me she had a plan for the pork we had left over from Sunday, so I didn't even cook dinner tonight. Debbie fixed a wonderful pork stroganoff sauce and served it not with rice, not with noodles, but with mashed potatoes. 

It was delicious. After dinner, I read some articles and columns online related to current events. 

That was about it. 

I bet I do more tomorrow. 

One thing I know: I'll be rested. 

Three Beautiful Things 04-14-2026: The Spokane Falls, Spokane Nostalgia and Spokane Now, Ice Cream in Spokane Valley

1. This idea, to go on a monthly outing to Spokane, that Christy, Carol, and I agreed to, is working beautifully for me. Every trip we've made to Spokane has opened my eyes to a new and stimulating aspect of Spokane and added to the exploring I've done by myself. 

Christy was in charge of today's outing and decided that we would explore Monroe Street, both north and south. 

After Christy bought us all coffee drinks at Wake Up Call Coffee in CdA, we headed to the City Hall area of Post Street, immediately found a superb parking spot, and made our way down toward the Spokane River and Huntington Park, all in the shadow of the Monroe Street Bridge. 

The river is running powerfully right now and so to get close to the swelling water and the boiling whitewater at the bottom of the raging Spokane Falls excited us. We also marveled at the blooming Serviceberry trees and other spring blossoms emerging and read signs telling us about the history of this vital part of the Spokane River in the city's history. 

2. We piled back into Christy's Sube and headed north on Monroe and parked in front of a fun store called Vintage Print and Neon. 

The store specializes in Spokane and Pacific Northwest nostalgia. 

Most of the store's items are not relics from the past, but are nostalgic creations by the store's owner like Olympia and Rainier Beer T-shirts and coasters or replicas of Chapter 11 menus. The owner has landed some relics, though, mostly neon signs: Reddy Kilowatt, the sign for the Italian Kitchen on N. Bernard, and others. 

We left Vintage Print and Neon (at the northwest corner of NW Blvd and Monroe) with Spokane memories dancing in our heads and, after turning back the clock, we then entered 2026 Spokane and ate lunch at the Kindred Public House, recently voted by Inlander readers as the best new restaurant in Spokane. 

3. We left Kindred nourished and satisfied and bolted up the south Monroe hill and indulged in a little more nostalgia. 

The three of us went on our first sibling outing back at the end of March, 2007. We had coffee at Doma when it was located in downtown CdA. We ate lunch at Jack and Dan's in Spokane. We did other things, including a trip to Huckleberry's Natural Market and today, nineteen years later, we returned for a run through, a purchase or two, and just to see how the store was holding up after thirty years in business -- very well, in fact.

We ended our outing to Spokane in Spokane Valley on N. Argonne Road at Pete and Belle's Ice Cream and Chocolate Shop for delicious scoops of ice cream. I had a scoop of loaded and chocolate-y/caramel-y Halley's Comet and a scoop of refreshing Strawberry Cheesecake. 

What a day! The powerful Spokane River awed us. Spokane nostalgia warmed us. We ate satisfying food. We indulged in delicious ice cream. 

I'm in charge for May and, stay tuned. I have a fun outing already planned! 

Tuesday, April 14, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-13-2026: Potatoes and GMOs, Another Appalachian Episode, Book Talk

1.  I finished the last chapter of The Botany of Desire today. It focused on the potato and developed into an examination of the former agrochemical and agricultural technology corporation, Monsanto (sold to the German chemical company Bayer in 2018). Much of this chapter discussed and illustrated Monsanto's work in the field of genetically modified organisms. 

In particular, Monsanto genetically engineered a potato called NewLeaf. The NewLeaf potato seed was genetically engineered to resist the Colorado beetle, thus altering the need to apply pesticides to eradicate this potato damaging pest. 

The first three chapters of this book explored apples and sweetness, tulips and beauty, mariuana and intoxication. 

This last chapter explored the potato and control. I learned about efforts in potato farming to control the look, taste, shape, and pest and disease resistance of the potato, much of it in service to satisfying consumers' desires for what a potato, a potato chip, and a French fry, among other potato products, ought to look and taste like. 

I'm ready to go back and read this book a second time and see if on a second reading I can get a better grip on its general argument and compelling explanations and detailed support. 

2. This evening, Debbie and I listened to another episode of the podcast Inside Appalachia. Its focus was on West Virginia, especially coal miners. You might remember that on April 5, 2010 a coal dust explosion occurred in the Upper Branch Mine, a Massey Energy owned coal mine in Raleigh County, West Virginia. Twenty-nine miners died. 

Inevitably, listening to one miner as he looked back and made his observations and shared feelings about the blast, my mind went back to the May 2, 1972 Sunshine Mine Fire/Disaster near Kellogg that killed ninety-one miners. 

It's not the first time that I've listened to miners and other citizens of the mining regions of Appalachia and thought about how connected these people are with people in mining towns here in North Idaho. 

I thought a lot about the many times I've listened to miners who survived the Sunshine Fire/Disaster being interviewed in the film You Are My Sunshine. It's all harrowing. 

3. It's fun when Debbie is home for many reasons, but one that I enjoy immensely is how we discuss books and the ways they are written. 

We both read books written in a variety of different time periods, books translated into English from other languages, and books of different genres, like poetry, fiction, and non-fiction. We also read as wide a variety of voices and experiences as we can.

This evening we had a relaxed conversation about styles of writing, especially about the English sentence. I mentioned that I thought sentences had an architecture and that I especially enjoyed the way, say, 19th century novelists would at times write long sentences, packed with subordination, often rich in detail, and that when this kind of sentence pops up in more contemporary prose, it fires me up. 

Monday, April 13, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-12-2026: Marijuana and Intoxication, Superb Family Dinner, The BIG Questions

 1. I found the chapter on marijuana in Michael Pollan's book Botany of Desire fascinating. Yes, on the one hand, I found his research into the history of marijuana and marijuana cultivation and the genetics that informed how growers developed better and better pot to be very interesting.

Even more interesting to me was his writing about consciousness and imagination and religious rites and how over the centuries different consciousness altering substances like wine, peyote, opium and others have enhanced religious and imaginative experiences, have aided shamans and others in their search for insight into mystical realities and have also aided poets, essayists, writers of fiction, and musicians (for starters) to explore insights and experiences and to imagine possibilities not otherwise available to them. 

Does Pollan write about the abuse of consciousness altering substances. 

Yes. 

But like the desire for sweetness and beauty, Pollan also explores the human desire for intoxication, why organic intoxicants exist in the natural world, and what results from the pursuit of different types and different levels of altering one's consciousness (I write this post feeling the pleasure of and experiencing the benefits of the mild enhancement I'm now enjoying under the influence of my second morning latte!).

I just fixed Debbie a latte and during my break from writing this post, I thought about how Pollan writes about marijuana's medicinal qualities in this chapter. I immediately thought of two friends whose quality of life is enhanced by marijuana. One suffers from PTSD and the other from chronic pain. 

Marijuana helps give them the relief they desire via a healing form of intoxication. 

Both friends are ambitious as they pursue their avocations and marijuana helps them pursue the activities they experience as sources of happiness and fulfillment. 

2. Debbie and I hosted tonight's family dinner and all I did to help out was vacuum the living room!

Debbie had a plan for dinner and she carried it out beautifully. 

She baked gluten free dinner rolls, made a shredded carrot salad, and mashed several potatoes as compliments to the delicious pork and sauerkraut casserole she also fixed. Carol air fried a startlingly delicious batch of lemon garlic tofu cubes and Christy baked a very tasty Olive Oil Almond and Orange cake which she served with Orange and Sweet Cream Ice Cream (I hope I got that name right...). 

3. I thoroughly enjoy discussions of Christianity and spiritual experience when everyone talks about these matters in their own language, on their own terms, and don't simply repeat what they've heard their pastors say or what they think they ought to say in order to conform with some sense of correctness. 

We had such a discussion after dinner tonight and fearlessly shared our thoughts about mysticism, love, ecumenism, original sin, the Holy Spirit, charismatic worship, and other topics as they came up. 

Not once did anyone say, "That's not right!" or "I disagree" or any other discouraging or conversation killing words. 

We are searching and questioning and trying out insights and possibilities; we approach these matters humbly, unrestricted by assertions of certainty or dogma. 



Sunday, April 12, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-11-2026: Magic App, Tulip Mania, Wondrous Stir Fry

 1. Surprise! Surprise! Surprise! We received a very modest check (also known as a warrant) in the mail today from the State of Idaho. We filed an overpayment of our state income taxes. I told Debbie I'd mail it to the credit union and she told me that I can make a deposit via the OCCU app. I loaded up the app and PRESTO! the app took a picture of each side of the check and in a flash the transaction was complete. 

That was a fun thing to learn -- and amazed this codger. 

2. Do you remember the Dot-Com Bubble of the late 20th century? 

Well, what if I were to tell you that Holland experienced a TULIP bubble in 1634 that popped in 1637?

It's a period known as Tulip Mania. 

Tulips had become highly fashionable, and speculators suddenly became willing to pay extraordinarily high prices for bulbs and then the whole thing collapsed, and many people suffered great financial losses. 

If it weren't for reading the "Tulip" chapter of Michael Pollan's book The Botany of Desire, I never would have known about Tulip Mania nor about the evolutionary history of the tulip and I wouldn't know as much as I know now about the concept of beauty. 

Next chapter? 

Marijuana.

3. I tend to stock the stir fries I make with quite a few vegetables. 

Debbie, however, fixed a stir fry tonight that was very satisfying and the only vegetables she used were onion and spinach. She deftly combined soy sauce, honey, ginger, sesame oil, garlic, and maybe other ingredients into a superb sauce and added Thai wheat noodles. She also made a pot of brown rice, so I savored this delicious meal, one of the only times I can remember having both noodles and rice in my stir fry bowl. 

Saturday, April 11, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-10-2026: Apples, Burgers at the Elks, The Lounge and Ice Cream and Potato Chips

1.  Before I read Chapter 1 of The Botany of Desire today, I basically knew the following about apples: I love biting into them, they taste great with peanut butter, I enjoy apples and cinnamon (apple pies and other baked apple desserts and in a bowl of oatmeal), and that they go great, when baked, with pork chops and pork roasts. 

Now I know so much more about the apple's genetic history, the story of John Chapman, also known as Johnny Appleseed, the countless varieties of apples, how grafting works, and how the number of varieties of apples has shrunk because of which varieties sell the best in grocery stores. 

Next up in this book: tulips. 

2. Debbie and I attended Burger Night at the Elks late this afternoon. We sat with Ed and saw a host of other friends and acquaintances. As always, I thoroughly enjoyed the scene and especially enjoyed the burger. It's not a monster burger. It's not a slider either but occupies that perfect spot in burger sizing where it satisfies my hunger but doesn't leave me feeling stuffed. 

And it tastes great.

3. We dropped in at The Lounge and it was an especially great time for Debbie. She visited a couple of tables and had great conversations with different people. I didn't mingle. I was happy sitting at the bar, nursing a Bud Zero, and having a pleasant mix of quiet time and conversations with Cas and some patrons who stopped by to chat. 

As we arrived home, Debbie told me that she wished we'd stopped at Yoke's, that chips and ice cream would make this a perfect evening.

I agreed and volunteered to go over to the store and I returned with barbecue chips and salted caramel ice cream and that's how we topped off our night on the town in Kellogg. 


Friday, April 10, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-09-2026: Mastery of Plants, What is Appalachia?, Another Perspective on *The Italian Symphony*

 1. The Science/Nature book club at Auntie's meets the first Tuesday of each month, giving Debbie and me plenty of time to read the club's next book, Michael Pollan's Botany of Desire. Through a study of the apple, the tulip, marijuana, and the potato, Pollan's book will explore the evolution of these domesticated plants and their relationship to the human desire for sweetness, beauty, intoxication, and control.

I've read the book's introduction. I told Debbie what I thought the book was about and she reminded me of this question: Does a virtuoso violin player master the violin or does the violin master the player? 

Likewise, do humans master these plants or do their inherent qualities of sweetness, beauty, intoxication, and pleasing taste master the gardener? 

We'll see.  

2. When we lived in Maryland, I discovered and became fascinated with a podcast from West Virginia Public Radio called Inside Appalachia. I know that the Silver Valley of North Idaho is not Appalachia, but as I listened to different episodes of this podcast and as I thought back on my many viewings of the documentary movie Harlan County, USA, I saw parallels.

Recently, Debbie read a book entitled What You Are Getting Wrong About Appalachia

So, tonight, Debbie asked me to find an episode of Inside Appalachia and I did and we listened to it together. 

The episode we listened to explored the question "What is Appalachia?" and over the next hour we learned (or were reminded) that the Appalachian Range extends from north Georgia to Maine and that the cultural, economic, and political variety in these regions between Maine and Georgia make the question of just what Appalachia is a complex one that reaches far beyond the stereotypes we might have. 

This podcast episode featured interviews with people from Georgia, Virginia, West Virginia, Pittsburgh, and elsewhere and included interviews with academic scholars and local historians about the history and the implications of this squishy word "Appalachia". 

It was fascinating. 

It did not, however, lead me to think about North Idaho as much as other episodes have. 

I thought this episode locked in on uniquely Appalachian issues and realities. 

3.  Back on March 29th, Debbie and I heard the Spokane Symphony perform Felix Mendelssohn's energetic and captivating Italian Symphony. I had gone to Spokane on March 26th to hear the symphony's conductor, James Lowe, lecture on the program that included this symphony and Debbie and I listened to his pre-concert lecture on the 29th.

I thoroughly enjoyed Lowe's analysis of the Mendelssohn's Italian Symphony and this evening I wondered if Debbie might like to hear another perspective on it. I knew that the podcast Sticky Notes, hosted by Joshua Weilerstein, who makes his living as a flourishing guest conductor around the world, did an episode on the Italian Symphony

She didn't want to listen to this -- she wanted to listen to something on Appalachia. 

So, when we finished listening to Inside Appalachia, I listened to Joshua Weilerstein's hour long take on this symphony. It was my bedtime story. 

Musically, in terms of symphonic form, Lowe and Weilerstein had a similar understanding of this piece. 

Their interpretations of what Mendelssohn was inviting his audience to experience, however, were not the same. 

This fascinated me. 

For Lowe, each movement represented Mendelssohn's impressions of and experience in four different Italian cities: Venice, Rome, Florence, and Naples. 

For Weilerstein, the symphony was more pastoral, a way for Mendelssohn to express what he experienced in the Italian countryside, but not exclusively -- he, too, heard elements of urban life in the piece.

I thought their different ways of interpreting the symphony complimented each other. They also broadened my experience with this piece.

They definitely agreed on the most important point: it's a symphony that expresses how Italy energized Mendelssohn and inspired him to compose a symphony full of the joy of life and the vitality of beauty. 


Thursday, April 9, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-08-2026: Bruce Larsen's Upcoming Celebration of Life, Tire Repaired, Tchaikovsky and Spinning Reels

 1. MARK YOUR CALENDARS! CELEBRATION OF LIFE FOR BRUCE LARSEN!

Today Stu, Sue, and Sally met over lunch and nailed down the date and place for Bruce Larsen's Celebration of Life:

Date: Saturday, June 13, 2026

Time: 1:00 p.m.

Place: The Kellogg Elks Lodge, 202 McKinley Ave

 

2. I wanted to go on a drive today and as I left the driveway, the light indicating low tire pressure came on (again). 

I'd had the Camry's tires checked on Saturday and, indeed, the right rear tire needed air and today it looked like it needed air again. 

I rocketed over to Silver Valley Tire and the guy who put air in the tire recommended I have the tire checked for a problem. 

Luckily, they got the Camry in almost right away and discovered the tire had a small puncture. They repaired it and I was on my way again. 

3. On my drive to the CdA Casino, I listened to Robert Greenberg's illuminating lecture on Tchaikovsky's Romeo and Juliet Fantasy Overture. Not only did his lecture help me understand how Tchaikovsky moves his listeners through parts of the story of Romeo and Juliet, it also helped me understand how his orchestration worked to explore the play's many moods, emotions, and tensions. 

Moreover, this is one of a handful of lectures Greenberg presents in this Great Course about the historical move from the Classical to the Romantic period of classical music and this particular lecture helped clarify much of what is distinct about Romantic compositions and, for Tchaikovsky, what he pulled forward in this composition from the more formal Classical period. 

Was it a Winning Wednesday for me at the casino?

No. 

But that didn't dampen the fun I had driving, listening to Robert Greenberg, enjoying a light lunch at the Red Tail Bar and Grill, and skipping around the casino floor in search of the lucky machine I never found! 

Wednesday, April 8, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-07-2026: Several Silver Valley Stops, Debit Card Doesn't Go in Cash Slot, Stimulating Book Club Discussion

1, I spent time late this morning and on into the early afternoon taking care of things: paid the water bill; paid the City of Kellogg bill; took cardboard boxes to the dump; drove to Wallace to add miles on the Camry so I could get our wheels retorqued; fueled the car. 

Nothing revolutionary.

Nothing exciting. 

Just necessary and satisfying. 

2. Debbie and I drove to Spokane to attend the Science/Nature Book Club at Auntie's Bookstore. 

I seem to have decided that this otherwise easy and relaxing trip needed a shot of weirdness. 

I parked the car in the lot at Main and Stevens and when I went to pay for the parking pass to put on our dashboard, I put my debit card in the (unmarked) slot meant for paper currency. 

The machine ate my card. At some point later on, a parking lot employee will open up that machine and find my debit card.  

It'll be dead. 

Debbie paid for the parking pass and I called the credit union, put my lost card out of its misery, and I'll order a new one with another call Wednesday morning.

I did my best to put my careless mistake behind me so we could enjoy our bowls of curry at the Mango Tree.

3. The Book Club meeting began at 6:00. 

The people in the group were easy to be with and the discussion got better and better as our meeting progressed. 

We entered into substantial discussion about wildness in the midst of the toxic impact we humans have on land, water, and air and, in turn, on plants, fish, animals and other living things. 

The book inspired club members to refer to other books they've read (or that the club has read) and I enjoyed finding out about books I hadn't heard of and a few that I did know about. 

I thought telling the book club that I was from Kellogg was appropriate to our discussion. Not all the club members knew that Debbie and I live in a Superfund site. I know that much of the rehabilitation of the Silver Valley is from constructive human intervention: trees planted, soil replaced, slag piles removed, and so on. 

What I don't know -- and don't know if I'm capable of observing or discovering -- is whether wild plant life, damaged in the past, has made its way back the way Christopher Brown writes about this happening in the empty lot he purchased and had remediated. I don't know much about native plant life in this area, how much of it has been damaged, and what evidence one can find of it coming back to life again. 

I know that many of the trees, flowers, and other vegetation in and around Kellogg are beautiful, but not wild. 

So, I'm curious. 


Tuesday, April 7, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-06-2026: I Finish *Empty Lots*, I Didn't Watch Tonight's Basketball Game, I Didn't Watch Games 6 and 7 of the '75 World Series

1. By about 8:00 tonight, I finished the book, A Natural History of Empty Lots and its detailed and often meandering (which I enjoyed) exploration of history, philosophy, urban blight, wildness, economics, the business world, and, among much else, the fraught relationship between human beings and the natural world. 

One aspect of the book is Christopher Brown's telling the story of his vision of having a half-buried house built that is as integrated as much as possible into the natural world of the empty urban lot he purchased. His dream becomes a reality and Brown helps us see the joys and challenges of living in this house. 

I went online in search of images of his bunker house and it's a remarkable feat of architectural and ecological imagination. 

2. The book took priority for me over tonight's Michigan/UConn NCAA Men's Basketball Championship game. More than being involved with this game, I wanted to have the book finished and thought about before the Tuesday, April 7th Book Club meeting at Auntie's Bookstore in Spokane. 

Now I'm very curious what the members of this book club will have to say about this book. I have no idea where the discussion might go. 

3. Not watching the basketball game this evening reminded me of how I didn't watch Game 6 of the 1975 World Series and so missed bearing witness to Carlton Fisk's eternally famous 12th inning home run to win that game -- nor did I see Bernie Carbo's dramatic pinch hit three run homer in the bottom of the eighth inning that tied up this epic game. 

The night was October 21, 1975. I was a senior at Whitworth College and I spent that evening studying for a midterm exam coming up the next evening in the Renaissance and Reformation class I was taking from Dr. Fenton Duval. My studies took priority over, say, heading over to Rich Brock's dorm room and watching this game with him. 

I loved that course and I wanted to be fully prepared for whatever questions Dr. Duval would pose on that exam. Because it was an evening course, I also missed Game 7 of that World Series. 

I was sitting in a classroom writing my midterm exam. 

I aced it. 


Monday, April 6, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-05-2026: Resurrection Rice-A-Roni, Ham Dinner for Easter, Gratitude

 1.  Carol assigned Debbie and me to bring a rice dish to our Easter Day family dinner and Christy requested that we bring Do It Yourself Rice-A-Roni, a dish I've prepared several times. 

I don't know if I used a different recipe today or if I messed something up as I put the ingredients together, but after about a half an hour of cooking, at the time the recipe indicated the Rice-A-Roni would be cooked, it wasn't. 

Debbie, thank goodness, intervened and on this Easter Day we resurrected the seemingly dead Rice-A-Roni. 

Debbie also baked a loaf of egg bread, another food item that fell into the Easter Day category. 

About the bread dough, before it went in the oven, Debbie could joyfully proclaim: "It is risen." 

2. We took our rescued and resurrected Rice-A-Roni over to Carol and Paul's where we joined Carol, Paul, Christy, Taylor, Bucky, and Cosette for dinner. 

Paul prepared a vegetable plate and a cracker plate and made a white bean and pea dip for our appetizer. 

We filed into the dining area and sat down to a dinner of baked ham (Carol), a vegetable casserole (Christy), Resurrection Rice-A-Roni (ahem), and deviled eggs (Cosette). Carol served us each a tidy bowl of fresh strawberries topped with one of the Dream Whip products. 

3. I left dinner today feeling grateful that Cosette and family are doing very well; that Zoe and Molly also are doing well in their work and in the other aspects of their lives; that Carol and Paul's nieces, Taylor and Carly are both pregnant with their first babies and all reports about their lives are good. 

Adrienne sent us an Easter portrait of Jack and Eloise and they are healthy and happy in the picture and I know they, too, are doing well.

Molly also sent an Easter portrait of Olivia, David, and Ana. Just like Jack and Eloise, they look beautiful, healthy, and happy. 

Grateful indeed. 

Sunday, April 5, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-04-2026: Basketball Wagers, Nature as Resource and Spiritual Source, We Continue to Move Into Our House

 1. Early in this college basketball season when Michigan creamed Gonzaga, I said to someone (or maybe just to myself!), "I ought to drive over to Spokane Tribe Casino and use some of my stupid money that I keep in my stupid money envelope and bet right now on Michigan to win the whole tournament." 

Of course, I didn't do it. 

And there's no guarantee that Michigan will defeat UConn to win the title Monday night. 

But, it's fun to imagine what might have happened had I turned my musing into action. 

By the way, once the brackets were set, I did make one bet on the men's tournament. Ha! I wagered that Arizona would win it all. 

Oh, well. 

(Again. Ha! My one other wager was on the UConn women's team.)

2. As I read further into A Natural History of  Empty Lots, author Christopher Brown continues to explore the enduring questions, questions in play since the Puritans settled in New England: is undeveloped wilderness land really wasted land? Or does undeveloped land have an intrinsic spiritual value? 

I've struggled within myself with this question for nearly sixty years. 

3. We moved into the house we live in back in October, 2017. 

We are not done moving in yet -- which makes me wonder if anyone ever really finishes this job! 

Debbie and I are rethinking the front bedroom (Vizio Room) and we are considering a couple of improvements to our patio. Debbie put up new curtains today in the living room. The basement is always unsettled. Is it time to switch beds between the main floor bedroom and the upstairs one? 

We'll never settle things permanently in this house, just like we never did in the other two places we lived! 

Saturday, April 4, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-03-2026: Book Club at The Lounge, Relationships Between Books, Red Curry for Dinner

1. Debbie and I are both reading A Natural History of Empty Lots. We are both having a great experience. Debbie joined me at The Lounge shortly before five this afternoon. Ed and I had had a great hour or so yakkin' about all kinds of stuff before Debbie arrived. Debbie and I launched into a discussion of Empty Lots, as far as we've read.  The book is taking us out of our usual way of experiencing the world and challenging us to be more attentive, take charge of how we employ our senses, to be open to surprise, and to resist habitual ways of thinking and doing things as well as to resist the ways entities, especially money making ones, provide us with prefabricated responses to the world around us and how we think about it. 

2. A fun aspect of our discussion while seated at the bar was how this book calls up memories of other books we've read. For Debbie, the book connects to Sapiens by Yuval Noah Harari and I keep going back in my mind to Bill McKibben's book The End of Nature and Lulu Miller's Why Fish Don't Exist

I'll just say that I'm fascinated much more by the disorder, not the order, of the natural world and the biological aspects of the human world. Miller's book explores this. In addition, when I first read McKibben's book in 1989 it accelerated my interest in and curiosity about the relationship between human beings and the natural world and I've read a lot of books and articles about this subject since then.  

3. Before heading up to The Lounge around 3:30, I baked a block of tofu cubed and I made a red curry sauce. Once back home, I cooked a variety of vegetables in the red curry sauce and added in the tofu along with some kaffir lime leaves. 

I prepared a pot of basmati rice, too, and once the vegetables were tender, Debbie and I prepared ourselves delicious bowls of medium spicy red curry sauce over the vegetables and rice. 

We then balanced out having eaten spicy food with small bowls of Extra Triple Fudge Brownie ice cream. 

Friday, April 3, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-02-2026: Urban Walking, Urban Fossils and Shark Teeth, Debbie Fixes Chicken Dinner

 1. It could be called anarchy walking. I prefer "anarchy walking" to its more high-minded name, "psychogeography". Basically, this idea challenges us, when in an urban environment, to resist walking the ways the city (legitimately) lays out for us, to resist the streets and routes that, by design, lead us to where money is transacted (shops, banks, restaurants, etc.) and seek out other routes where non-commercial surprises exist, like small swaths of wild vegetative growth, birds and animals we might not think of as city dwellers, micro-ecosystems existing in the midst of discarded concrete chunks, abandoned cars, and other examples of urban blight. We might follow Christopher Brown's lead and explore empty lots in urban areas. (As a reminder, I'm reading Christopher Brown's book, A Natural History of Empty Lots: Field Notes from Urban Edgelands, Back Alleys, and Other Wild Places.)

The aim of this kind of walking is to widen one's range of observation and to marvel at the wildness that exists and survives in unexpected places. 

2. Christopher Brown's bushwhacking in creek beds and peering closely at areas on the edges of Austin, TX that were once at the bottom of a a pre-historic sea results in him finding fossils, shark teeth, and other evidence of prehistoric animal and marine life in amongst tires, soda bottles, beer cans, concrete chunks, and other 21st century trash heedlessly cast to the ground or in the water. 

3. Christy joined Debbie and me for a delicious dinner of baked chicken, baked yams, and steamed kale. I joked and asked what kind of ice cream we'd have for dessert and Debbie laughed, bemoaned that even though she'd thought of ice cream while at Yoke's today, she didn't buy any.

Suddenly she rose up, grabbed her keys, and dashed to the Camry, barreled to Yoke's, and before Christy and I knew it, she arrived back with a half-gallon of Extra Triple Fudge Brownie ice cream, served us each a small bowl, and my evening and its culinary pleasures were now complete. 



Wednesday, April 1, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 04-01-2026: What Makes Marriage Fun For Me

 I'm not an April Fool's guy, so these 3BTs are all straight, no pranking. 

1. Here's what makes marriage fun for me.  

I've been going to Spokane the last couple of months to hear classical music concerts -- the Gonzaga Symphony, the Spokane String Quartet, and the Spokane Symphony and I've been attending lectures about the Spokane Symphony concerts presented at the Museum of Arts and Culture in Spokane and an hour before each concert. 

Until Sunday, because Debbie was in either New York or Virginia, she wasn't with me at any of these events. 

Together again, we attended the lectures and Sunday's concert together. I initiated this outing. 

As I wrote earlier this week, after Sunday's concert, Debbie suggested that I be in charge of choosing cultural things for us to do and she'd take charge of travel. 

I happily agreed. 

Two days ago, Debbie was on the Auntie's Bookstore (in Spokane) website and saw that the bookstore supports several book clubs, including one that meets on the first Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. It's the Science and Nature Book Club. 

Debbie muscled in 🤣🤣 on my gig as the Minister of Culture and suggested we participate in this club on April 7th. 

"That sounds great!" I responded and I could feel that my world was about to expand. 

2. A few years ago, I went on a glorious bender reading books about animals: whales, salmon, beavers, cougars, the octopus, eels, and other more general books about animals. From time to time back in my teaching days I assigned books and readings about the relationship between human beings and nature including Into the Wild and Into Thin Air by John Krakauer and Dan O'Brien's Buffalo for the Broken Heart: Restoring Life to a Black Hills Ranch.  These are all science and nature books. 

I'm stoked for Tuesday. 

The Science and Nature Book Club will be discussing A Natural History of Empty Lots: Field Notes from Urban Edgelands, Back Alleys, and Other Wild Places by Christopher Brown. 

3. My copy arrived today and I dove right in. Christopher Brown is a keen observer of animals, birds, reptiles, plants, trees, and, well, in short, the natural world and now has written this book about natural wildlife in crummy neglected empty lots and other places in Austin, TX you wouldn't think of as sites to marvel at nature.  He built a house on one of these empty lots near an industrial park and began to observe all the wildlife activity around him in urban areas one might call wastelands or urban edgelands. 

I'm not even a hundred pages in and I've learned more about feral parakeets, mesquite trees, coyotes, hawks, egrets, herons, an array of wildflowers, the history of empty lots, and more than I had ever known before. And that's just for starters. 

My world has, indeed, expanded in invigorating and unexpected ways. 

I hope what you see in this post is that without me, Debbie never would have heard the symphony lectures we attended nor the Sunday concert and without Debbie, I would never have considered this book club nor this book. 

It makes marriage fun. 


Tuesday, March 31, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-31-2026: Winter Tires Off, Spring Clean Up of Our Yards, I Stir Fry Our Dinner

 1. It's a fairly quick job I look forward to having completed every year around this time: today the guys at Silver Valley Tire removed the Camry's snow tires and put the other ones back on. I lifted the winter tires up to the storage loft in our garage and now I won't have to do another swap until about November. 

2. Today was also the first day of 2026 of having the crew who takes care of yard visit. They did a comprehensive spring cleaning, mowed, bagged up cuttings and other debris, and applied fertilizer. They worked for quite a while and both our front and back yard look really good. 

3. If I'm not mistaken, tonight I fixed dinner for Debbie and me for the first time since her return. 

It felt great to put the wok back into action. I prepared Thai wheat noodles and stir fried chicken tenders, potstickers, zucchini, yellow squash, celery, green beans. red pepper, and mushrooms and fixed a stir fry sauce to pour over this food. 

It's been almost six months since I've cooked for the two of us and it made me very happy that Debbie thoroughly enjoyed dinner -- and I liked it too!                                                                                                                                                                                          

Monday, March 30, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-30-2026: My World Expands, Copper Wants My Company, A Refreshing and Delicious Family Dinner

 1. When Debbie goes away, whether on short trips or longer stays, I get along at home just fine. I'm self-driven to cook, read, learn new things, maintain stimulating exchanges with friends online, explore the arts at home and in Spokane, and I have relaxing times at The Lounge and when I go spin reels and eat bar and grill food I enjoy at one of the casinos. I enjoy Sibling Outings with Christy and Carol and our weekly family dinners. And, it goes without saying, I always have the warm and reliable companionship of Copper and Gibbs.

But when Debbie returns home, my world expands. She's read books I don't know about, She has ideas regarding things to do together I haven't thought of. I often fall into cooking ruts (enjoyable ones, but ruts all the same) and Debbie brings welcomed and different ways of cooking and does things in the kitchen she's learned while away. 

It was that way today. We have extended and healthy periods of silence when we retreat into our own worlds at home and have little to say to each other. But then something pops up. Debbie tells me about a book written by a man who became obsessed with empty urban lots of land in Austin, TX. I think of something from the music we enjoyed Sunday and I tell her what's on my mind. Debbie comes home from Walmart where she's run into a friend, comforted a neighbor, and talked to former students. She tells me good stories. So, yeah, I try to expand my experience in and knowledge of the world daily. I do a decent job of it when I'm living alone. 

But with Debbie back home, with the meeting of our minds, my world becomes much more expanded. 

2. As Copper ages, he seems to want my company more and more. He never has been an affectionate cat and that remains true. But, as I write this, lying on my back on the bed, he purrs, resting about six inches away from me, careful not to make contact with me from my waist to the top of my head. When I get under the covers and lie on my back, Copper will press himself against one of my lower legs, but he won't press against me in any other way. 

He does, however, like it a lot when I pet him or rest a hand on his back, side, or belly. 

So, today, he meowed quite a bit and decided he was beseeching me to come into the bedroom with him. I assumed the prone position on the bed and rested my hand under his chin and he relaxed and closed his eyes, looking like he'd just eaten a package of catnip. 

He was quiet, at peace, and content.

He fell asleep.

I stayed with him for about an hour or so and Copper's body language conveyed to me that I'd done just what he wanted. 

We were both very happy. 

3. Christy expanded my world this evening. She hosted family dinner and assigned Debbie and me to bring halved hard boiled eggs, steamed asparagus, and sliced tomatoes as contributions to a Roasted Salmon Nicoise Platter. With the platter's salmon, asparagus, tomatoes, lettuce, cold cooked potato slices, capers, and a vinaigrette spread out before us, we each made our own salad. Carol baked bread to accompany our meal. 

I'd never had this exact meal before. 

Before we served ourselves from the Nicoise spread, we enjoyed pickled vegetables, cheese, crackers, and cheese spread for an appetizer. Christy baked brownies for dessert and I accepted her offer of vanilla ice cream to accompany it. I never got around, darn it, to munching a few Easter M&Ms Christy also made available. 

This was a fun and refreshing dinner. 


Sunday, March 29, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-29-2026: Pre-Concert Lecture, Debbie and I Enjoy Classical Music with Our Eyes and Ears, We Agreed to Each Have a Ministry in Our Marriage

 1. Debbie and I piled into the Camry early this afternoon and zoomed to the Martin Woldson Theater at the Fox to attend today's performance by the Spokane Symphony.  We arrived in plenty of time to park, stroll to 1st and Monroe and enter the northside door, pick up our tickets at will call, and find a seat close to the stage for the pre-concert lecture. 

Today's soloist was the Spokane Symphony's concertmaster, Mateusz Wolski. He and Conductor James Lowe opened the lecture with Lowe interviewing Wolski about what he enjoys about Edouard Lalo's Symphonie espagnole, Op 21 the concerto that would feature him. Wolski explained how Lalo's piece veers between different emotional poles and how it is infused with the energy Spain and the vitality of its culture. 

The program also featured Fannie Mendelssohn-Hensel's only published orchestral composition, Overture in C Major and James Lowe lamented how prevailing ideas about women sabotaged Mendelssohn-Hensel's career as a composer. He helped us see how the overture moves from tentative and searching to exuberant and confident by the end. This overture is not often performed and I was very happy to get to hear it today. 

Fannie Mendelssohn-Hensel's younger brother, the wildly famous Felix Mendelssohn, had his masterpiece, Symphony No 3 in A Major, the "Italian", end the program. James Lowe explained how each movement of this symphony represents a different Italian city (Venice, Rome, Florence, and Naples) and a different facet of Italian identity (boundless energy, spirituality, cultural refinement, gritty and chaotic energy). 

2. Debbie and I always give anything like a concert, play, movie, art gallery, or museum that we experience together time to sink in, time to take hold in us before we talk about it. 

Once we arrived home, we talked.  We discovered that both of us loved hearing this music played live and that we both were as absorbed by watching the musicians, using our eyes and our ears together to figure out where certain sounds were coming from, and were, in some ways, as fascinated by musicians who did very little during some pieces, but then were called into action (after a long wait) whether they played a triangle, a snare drum, or a piccolo. 

Until today, I never knew Debbie watched orchestral concerts as well as listened to them and I had a blast going back and forth with Debbie, telling each other our visual observations and what we found pleasing to our ears, too. 

3. Not long after returning to the Camry, we made an agreement. From now on, for the most part, Debbie will be the travel planner of our marriage and I will be in charge of cultural outings.

Both of us are stoked to carry out the missions of our ministries. 

 

Three Beautiful Things 03-28-2026: Book Donation Project, Right! I Bought that Movie!, Poppers and Salad

1. It's been fun remembering my pleasure when I read the books I'm packing up to donate to Better World Books -- a Certified B Corporation that advances the causes of sustainability and literacy globally through its sales of mostly donated used books and other materials. I've been a customer of Better World Books for about fifteen years and always been very happy with their selections and the condition of the used books I've purchased from them. 

2. As I worked my way through the bookshelves, I'd forgotten about a few items I had in my possession. One example connects with the presence of Leonard Oakland in my life lately, mainly through his Sunday morning radio program. 

I'd forgotten that a few years ago I bought a DVD of the movie A Thousand Clowns, a movie Leonard was very excited about.  On a movie night in Cowles Auditorium at Whitworth about fifty years ago, Leonard introduced this movie with great passion and insight and then not only did the movie live up to his enthusiasm, it became one of my favorite movies of all time. 

I was thrilled today to remember I'd purchased it and that this project I'm working on resulted in me unearthing it. I played the opening ot the movie and WOW! can I ever hardly wait to watch the whole thing again. 

3. We had a fun snack-y dinner tonight. On a whim, Debbie bought a package of jalapeno poppers that the meat department at Yoke's puts together. I enjoyed the heat, cheese, and bacon. I continue to work my way through the vegetables Debbie cut up the other day to make salads with. Cool salad. Spicy poppers. Everything in balance! 

Saturday, March 28, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-27-2026: Donating Books, Ed and I Meet at The Lounge, Debbie Arrives a Little Later

 1. I made progress today in deciding which books to pack up and ship as donations to Better World Books. I'm beginning to fill some boxes. 

2. Ed and I met at The Lounge around 3:45 this afternoon. He's had concerns about the stability of two large trees on his property and today a crew came out and took them down, a huge relief for Ed. He admired the crew's workmanship and showed Cas and me videos of the work being done. Impressive. 

3. Ed left after a couple of beers and I stayed at The Lounge, knowing Debbie was going to walk up from the Beanery where she went to relax, possibly knit, possibly read a book, possibly have conversations. 

She arrived and it was fun to watch her continue her reentry into life in Kellogg. She's already reconnected with friends, attended Christy's book club, shopped at Walmart (where she ran into people she knows from Pinehurst Elementary), and she visited The Lounge last Saturday. 

Today she joined a table to talk with some regulars at The Lounge, like Candy and Gloria, and Harley came up to the bar and we got in a good session of yakking about all kinds of things: transporting cars, the food pantry at the Elks, the opening of the bar in the basement of the Elks, surprises created by revelations provided by  services like ancestry.com, and other subjects, all including stories, questions, and thoughtful reflection. 

I was at The Lounge for nearly four hours -- my longest stay in a long time and I walked out and drove home cold sober thanks to the wondrous non-alcohol content of Bud Zero. 

Friday, March 27, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-26-2026: So Many Uplifting Connections!, Return to Great Harvest Bread Company, The Scoop Again -- Why Not?

1. I'm going to reflect for a few sentences on how things in life can serendipitously connect and bring about joy. 

The series of connections I'm thinking about began when I had kidney transplant surgery in May, 2024.

This surgery required frequent follow up visits to Providence Sacred Heart for bloodwork and appointments with the transplant team. Later on, I had the labs drawn at Kootenai Health in Coeur d'Alene. 

At some point in 2025, I decided while making these frequent trips to Coeur d' Alene and Spokane that I would listen to the Symphony Hall channel on Sirius XM in the car. 

I not only enjoyed the music, I also very much enjoyed the work of the morning host, Colleen Wheelahan and began to listen to her routinely on Sirius XM in the mornings at home.  Soon I discovered she also hosts a classical music program on Louisville Public Radio that starts at 3:00 p.m. PST and I began tuning into it as well. 

My days began to be taken up with reading from books and listening to lectures about classical music. 

In the meantime, in April of 2025, Carol planned our month's sibling outing to take place at the Museum of Art and Culture in Spokane. 

Deeply impressed that day, I became a member of the museum. 

Joining the museum meant that the museum sent me a monthly newsletter and back in January I noticed something in the newsletter I hadn't seen before.

On Thursdays at noon, when there are upcoming weekend performances by the Spokane Symphony, the conductor, James Lowe, gives a lecture at the museum about the upcoming symphony program. 

In mid-January I went to his lecture, even though I couldn't go to that weekend's symphony, and I was blown away.

So, today, thanks to a kidney transplant, frequent follow up trips out of town, the Symphony Hall channel, Carol planning an impressive visit to Spokane's Museum of Arts and Culture, joining the museum, reading their newsletter,  the magic of audible.com and the Great Courses, reading material, and thanks to having been so impressed with two other James Lowe lectures, today I drove to Spokane to hear his lecture on this weekend's symphony program. Upon returning home, I bought Debbie and me tickets to hear this weekend's program on Sunday afternoon at the Fox Theater. 

2. I can add one other piece to this uplifting bunch of connections. 

Time after time after time that I drove to Providence Sacred Heart for follow up labs and appointments, I then drove to Great Harvest Bread Company for coffee and a treat, most often a muffin. If my visits to Sacred Heart ended later in the day, I dropped into Great Harvest for a sandwich. 

After today's invigorating lecture ended, I headed straight up to E 29th and S. Southeast Blvd to Great Harvest. I purchased a loaf of Farmhouse Bread for Debbie and me and ordered a turkey sandwich on Dakota bread and polished it off with a soft, sweet, and salty Salted Caramel cookie. 

It was an awesome lunch and the many warm feelings I have about this place and how much I enjoyed it after all those appointments returned. 

3. In the spirit of everything's connected, thanks to this week's Wednesday sibling outing and our visit to The Scoop, I returned there today and enjoyed a scoop of chocolate-y Eat the Billionaires and a scoop of Vegan Oatmilk Oatmeal Cookie ice cream, a perfect match. 


Thursday, March 26, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-25-2026: Sibling Outing to St. John's Cathedral, Cannon Hill Park, Beef Noodles

All this happened on Wednesday. 

 1. First, a quick reminder. 

Our 2026 Sibling Outings focus on visits to Spokane. 

Today, Carol was in charge of our outing and led us on a foray into the Cliff Cannon neighborhood. We started with breakfast at Little Euro, just a block or so away from what was, for me, the heart and soul of our outing, St. John's Cathedral where we worshipped at the 12:00 Rite II Eucharist service. 

Once inside this Gothic Revival building for a while, we learned that the 12:00 Eucharist would be held in the Guild Room. The usual worship spaces were closed. They were being spiffed up in advance of Holy Week and Easter Day. 

So, about a dozen of us sat around a rectangular table and the Dean of the cathedral, the Very Rev. Heather VanDeventer, guided us through a Rite II Eucharist and, lo and behold, Carol volunteered to read the Epistle, a passage from Hebrews, and I volunteered to read the Old Testament lesson from Isaiah. 

I've been out of touch with Episcopalian life and with the worldwide Anglican Communion for just about six years. I was very protective of myself during the pandemic, fell out of the habit of driving to CdA to worship at St. Luke's, and I haven't pushed myself back into that routine again. 

So, I didn't know that today was a momentous day in the Church of England and Anglicanism globally. 

First of all, today was the Feast Day of the Annunciation, celebrating the angel Gabriel's announcement to Mary that she would conceive Jesus. 

The celebration of this momentous day in the history of the church was, appropriately, also chosen as the day when the first ever woman, Bishop Sarah Mullally, was installed as the Archbishop of Canterbury. (Click on this link to read more about the office of the Archbishop of Canterbury.)

Dean Heather VanDeventer gave a terrific homily today that paralleled the call to service Mary received on this day and the call the (now) Archbishop of Canterbury Sarah Mullally also received on this day. Most of all, I enjoyed learning that central to Archbishop Mullally's vocation is her devotion to the understanding that all of us are pilgrims in our faith, journeying together in our walk of faith, equals in the eyes of God, sharing the experience of not having arrived, but being on a road to understanding and service. 

2. We drove a short distance from the cathedral to Cannon Hill Park. 

I'd never been to this handsome, elegant park before. 

Its most attractive feature for me was its pond. I could have walked around the park, but ever since leaving Eugene, OR and Greenbelt, MD, I've yearned for a pond I could travel to easily and yearned to sit and watch ducks and geese and whatever waterfowl might also pop in for a visit.

So, that's what I did. 

I sat still.

Quiet. 

And I watched the birds and dreamed a bit about how fun it would be to live near this spot and walk the circumference of the pond and enjoy the water, trees, and the birds. 

We left the park and went to The Scoop ice cream parlor on W. 25th and Monroe, thus wrapping up our outing with delicious and refreshing ice cream. 

3. Back home, Debbie slow cooked a chuck roast on the stove top which she then turned into a superb beef and egg noodle dish. 

This delicious bowl of my favorite cut of beef, some vegetables, noodles, and a savory broth, brought this significant and fulfilling day to a close. 

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-24-2026: Salsa, Fresh Salad, Remembering and Laughing

 1. All I really wanted for breakfast this morning was salsa. I boiled red potatoes cut into chunks, fried them with onion and mushrooms, and then scrambled four eggs. Debbie wanted this breakfast, too. She was also hungry for salsa. The Trader Joe's salsa I bought last Friday is a little hotter than medium and I loved it on this mess of food I prepared. 

2. All I really wanted at dinner time was a fresh garden salad and I fixed myself one with the vegetables Debbie had cut up yesterday and some romaine lettuce. I ate this salad after enjoying a serving of elbow macaroni and all I really wanted on the macaroni was butter, pepper, and Parmesan cheese. 

That worked. 

3. All I really wanted to do when I read Rich Brock's miraculous response to one of my 3BTs yesterday was make him laugh. 

First, the miracle. I wrote yesterday about things I used to know but that have, in Billy Collins' words, "decided to retire to the southern hemisphere of the brain". I've forgotten them. 

As an example, I wrote that I had forgotten the starting lineup of the 1968 San Francisco Giants, a fact, even as it changed during the season, that I could have rattled off during the explosive summer of my 14 year old season in Babe Ruth as easily as I breathed. 

Miraculously, Rich went to a Giants/Reds game in the tumultuous summer of 1968 and still had the scorecard and sent me the Giants' starting lineup from that day. 

It was a miracle! 

Reading those names reminded me of when, at Whitworth, Rich and I could just say the names of certain players, and, thanks to their mediocrity or what they looked like on a baseball card, we'd make each other laugh just by saying Don Mossi or Gus Triandos. 

So, when I commented back to Rich with the names George Alucik, Claude Raymond, Bobby Bolin and others, all I really wanted to do was make him laugh. 

It worked.  

He answered with the names Clay Dalrymple and Frank Taveras. 

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Tuesday, March 24, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-23-2026: Bursts in the Kitchen, Moroccan Family Dinner, Family Dinner Invigoration

1. I'd have to say that Debbie and I take over the kitchen in bursts. Debbie is on a burst right now. She volunteered without pause to fix hummus, our contribution to tonight's Moroccan family dinner, chopped up a cornucopia of vegetables for future salads, and purchased a chuck roast at Yoke's which she has already planned to fix for Wednesday's dinner. 

2. Lately, Carol has had a burst of ideas for family dinner when it's been hers and Paul's turn to host. The last time she hosted we had an Asian meal focused on miso congee and tonight she created a menu of Moroccan food. 

At the center of our dinner was Carol's Moroccan Vegetable Tangine seasoned with spices I cannot name, but that were wondrously delicious. Christy contributed a superb Rice Pilaf and Debbie prepared a distinctive Moroccan Hummus that went beautifully with a flatbread Carol prepared called Aloo Paratha. 

Carol offered us a bowl of almonds and figs for dessert, a perfect conclusion to this tasty and, at least to me, adventurous meal. 

3. It turned out that Debbie and Paul are both using apps to learn languages. Debbie is chipping away at German and Paul has dived into French. The news of their ventures opened up one of my favorite family dinner discussions of all time as we talked about how different languages function, the relation of languages like French, German, and Latin to English, and what approaches to learning a new language work best. 

I realized during this discussion how much I've forgotten over the last nearly fifty years since the study of English grammar, German for reading knowledge, French, and even a summer of Latin study was a central part of my academic life along with studying literature. 

I wasn't particularly good at language study, but I learned a lot that fascinated me. Over the years, in the same way I can no longer name the starting lineup for the 1968 San Francisco Giants, things I once knew have receded and tonight I missed having had that knowledge, but the discussion invigorated me and some of what I used to know began to wake up.  

It also invigorated me after Debbie opened her Christmas gifts 🎄🎅🤶 when Paul came over where I was sitting and had me read a passage from Days of Awe and Wonder,  a book by Marcus Borg, a now deceased emeritus professor at Oregon State University and a Christian thinker and scholar to whom I owe a great debt of gratitude for his clear, sane, generous, and wide-minded writing about Christianity. 



Monday, March 23, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-22-2026: Leonard Oakland Reads Billy Collins, Momentary Fright, Debbie Cooks Pork Chops

 1. At 10:00 this morning, via the magic of streaming, I listened to Leonard Oakland's Sunday morning radio program, "Morning Classical" at spokanepublicradio.org. He played a series of familiar and often uplifting compositions and he read a superb poem by Billy Collins entitled, "Sunday Morning with the Sensational Nightingales". The poem took us into the joyful experience of hearing certain music that makes us soar. To read this ecstatic poem, go to the bottom of this post. 

2. I think this happened after midnight early Sunday morning. I was sleeping peacefully and suddenly the sound of footsteps in the house startled me awake. I knew those footsteps were human and it wasn't Gibbs prancing around. I was a little rattled. Who could possibly be walking just outside where I sleep? Suddenly my head cleared.

Oh yeah. 

Debbie's back home.  

3. So, yes, I'm getting used to not being alone in the house at night and during the day. 

Today, Debbie told me she'd fix dinner tonight. 

I loved hearing this. 

While I enjoy cooking and rarely ate out while Debbie was gone, Debbie has approaches to cooking that are different from mine and she dreams up and prepares meals I'd never think of.

They are always superb. 

Tonight, she prepared pork chops in a cream of mushroom sauce with spinach and made a terrific side combining red potatoes, green beans, chicken broth, and bacon. I might have missed ingredients in these descriptions, but you get the idea. 

Sharing tasks. 

It makes being back under the same roof enjoyable and often restful. 


Sunday Morning with the Sensational Nightingales

It was not the five Mississippi Blind Boys
who lifted me off the ground
that Sunday morning
as I drove down for the paper, some oranges, and bread.
Nor was it the Dixie Hummingbirds
or the Soul Stirrers, despite their quickening name,
or even the Swan Silvertones
who inspired me to look over the commotion of trees
into the open vault of the sky. 

No, it was the Splendid Nightingales
who happened to be singing on the gospel
station early that Sunday morning
and must be credited with the bumping up
of my spirit, the arousal of the mice within.

I have always loved this harmony,
like four, sometimes five trains running
side by side over a contoured landscape --
make that a shimmering, red-dirt landscape,
wildflowers growing along the silver tracks,
lace tablecloths covering the hills,
the men and women in white shirts and dresses
walking in the direction of a tall steeple.
Sunday morning in a perfect Georgia. 
But I am not here to describe the sound
of the falsetto whine, sepulchral bass,
alto and tenor fitted snugly in between;
Only to witness my own minor ascension
that morning as they sang, so parallel,
about the usual themes,
the garden of suffering,
the beads of blood on the forehead,
the stone before the hillside tomb,
and the ancient rolling waters
we would all have to cross some day. 

God bless the Sensational Nightingales,
I thought as I turned up the volume, 
God bless their families and their powder blue suits.
They are a far cry from the quiet kneeling
I was raised with,
a far, hand-clapping cry from the candles
that glowed in the alcoves
and the fixed eyes of saints staring down
from their corners.

Oh, my cap was on straight that Sunday morning
and I was fine keeping the car on the road.
No one would ever have guessed
I was being lifted into the air by nightingales,
hoisted by their beaks like a long banner
that curls across an empty blue sky,
caught up in the annunciation
of these high, most encouraging tidings.

 -- Billy Collins