Saturday, March 28, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-27-2026: Donating Books, Ed and I Meet at The Lounge, Debbie Arrives a Little Later

 1. I made progress today in deciding which books to pack up and ship as donations to Better World Books. I'm beginning to fill some boxes. 

2. Ed and I met at The Lounge around 3:45 this afternoon. He's had concerns about the stability of two large trees on his property and today a crew came out and took them down, a huge relief for Ed. He admired the crew's workmanship and showed Cas and me videos of the work being done. Impressive. 

3. Ed left after a couple of beers and I stayed at The Lounge, knowing Debbie was going to walk up from the Beanery where she went to relax, possibly knit, possibly read a book, possibly have conversations. 

She arrived and it was fun to watch her continue her reentry into life in Kellogg. She's already reconnected with friends, attended Christy's book club, shopped at Walmart (where she ran into people she knows from Pinehurst Elementary), and she visited The Lounge last Saturday. 

Today she joined a table to talk with some regulars at The Lounge, like Candy and Gloria, and Harley came up to the bar and we got in a good session of yakking about all kinds of things: transporting cars, the food pantry at the Elks, the opening of the bar in the basement of the Elks, surprises created by revelations provided by  services like ancestry.com, and other subjects, all including stories, questions, and thoughtful reflection. 

I was at The Lounge for nearly four hours -- my longest stay in a long time and I walked out and drove home cold sober thanks to the wondrous non-alcohol content of Bud Zero. 

Friday, March 27, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-26-2026: So Many Uplifting Connections!, Return to Great Harvest Bread Company, The Scoop Again -- Why Not?

1. I'm going to reflect for a few sentences on how things in life can serendipitously connect and bring about joy. 

The series of connections I'm thinking about began when I had kidney transplant surgery in May, 2024.

This surgery required frequent follow up visits to Providence Sacred Heart for bloodwork and appointments with the transplant team. Later on, I had the labs drawn at Kootenai Health in Coeur d'Alene. 

At some point in 2025, I decided while making these frequent trips to Coeur d' Alene and Spokane that I would listen to the Symphony Hall channel on Sirius XM in the car. 

I not only enjoyed the music, I also very much enjoyed the work of the morning host, Colleen Wheelahan and began to listen to her routinely on Sirius XM in the mornings at home.  Soon I discovered she also hosts a classical music program on Louisville Public Radio that starts at 3:00 p.m. PST and I began tuning into it as well. 

My days began to be taken up with reading from books and listening to lectures about classical music. 

In the meantime, in April of 2025, Carol planned our month's sibling outing to take place at the Museum of Art and Culture in Spokane. 

Deeply impressed that day, I became a member of the museum. 

Joining the museum meant that the museum sent me a monthly newsletter and back in January I noticed something in the newsletter I hadn't seen before.

On Thursdays at noon, when there are upcoming weekend performances by the Spokane Symphony, the conductor, James Lowe, gives a lecture at the museum about the upcoming symphony program. 

In mid-January I went to his lecture, even though I couldn't go to that weekend's symphony, and I was blown away.

So, today, thanks to a kidney transplant, frequent follow up trips out of town, the Symphony Hall channel, Carol planning an impressive visit to Spokane's Museum of Arts and Culture, joining the museum, reading their newsletter,  the magic of audible.com and the Great Courses, reading material, and thanks to having been so impressed with two other James Lowe lectures, today I drove to Spokane to hear his lecture on this weekend's symphony program. Upon returning home, I bought Debbie and me tickets to hear this weekend's program on Sunday afternoon at the Fox Theater. 

2. I can add one other piece to this uplifting bunch of connections. 

Time after time after time that I drove to Providence Sacred Heart for follow up labs and appointments, I then drove to Great Harvest Bread Company for coffee and a treat, most often a muffin. If my visits to Sacred Heart ended later in the day, I dropped into Great Harvest for a sandwich. 

After today's invigorating lecture ended, I headed straight up to E 29th and S. Southeast Blvd to Great Harvest. I purchased a loaf of Farmhouse Bread for Debbie and me and ordered a turkey sandwich on Dakota bread and polished it off with a soft, sweet, and salty Salted Caramel cookie. 

It was an awesome lunch and the many warm feelings I have about this place and how much I enjoyed it after all those appointments returned. 

3. In the spirit of everything's connected, thanks to this week's Wednesday sibling outing and our visit to The Scoop, I returned there today and enjoyed a scoop of chocolate-y Eat the Billionaires and a scoop of Vegan Oatmilk Oatmeal Cookie ice cream, a perfect match. 


Thursday, March 26, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-25-2026: Sibling Outing to St. John's Cathedral, Cannon Hill Park, Beef Noodles

All this happened on Wednesday. 

 1. First, a quick reminder. 

Our 2026 Sibling Outings focus on visits to Spokane. 

Today, Carol was in charge of our outing and led us on a foray into the Cliff Cannon neighborhood. We started with breakfast at Little Euro, just a block or so away from what was, for me, the heart and soul of our outing, St. John's Cathedral where we worshipped at the 12:00 Rite II Eucharist service. 

Once inside this Gothic Revival building for a while, we learned that the 12:00 Eucharist would be held in the Guild Room. The usual worship spaces were closed. They were being spiffed up in advance of Holy Week and Easter Day. 

So, about a dozen of us sat around a rectangular table and the Dean of the cathedral, the Very Rev. Heather VanDeventer, guided us through a Rite II Eucharist and, lo and behold, Carol volunteered to read the Epistle, a passage from Hebrews, and I volunteered to read the Old Testament lesson from Isaiah. 

I've been out of touch with Episcopalian life and with the worldwide Anglican Communion for just about six years. I was very protective of myself during the pandemic, fell out of the habit of driving to CdA to worship at St. Luke's, and I haven't pushed myself back into that routine again. 

So, I didn't know that today was a momentous day in the Church of England and Anglicanism globally. 

First of all, today was the Feast Day of the Annunciation, celebrating the angel Gabriel's announcement to Mary that she would conceive Jesus. 

The celebration of this momentous day in the history of the church was, appropriately, also chosen as the day when the first ever woman, Bishop Sarah Mullally, was installed as the Archbishop of Canterbury. (Click on this link to read more about the office of the Archbishop of Canterbury.)

Dean Heather VanDeventer gave a terrific homily today that paralleled the call to service Mary received on this day and the call the (now) Archbishop of Canterbury Sarah Mullally also received on this day. Most of all, I enjoyed learning that central to Archbishop Mullally's vocation is her devotion to the understanding that all of us are pilgrims in our faith, journeying together in our walk of faith, equals in the eyes of God, sharing the experience of not having arrived, but being on a road to understanding and service. 

2. We drove a short distance from the cathedral to Cannon Hill Park. 

I'd never been to this handsome, elegant park before. 

Its most attractive feature for me was its pond. I could have walked around the park, but ever since leaving Eugene, OR and Greenbelt, MD, I've yearned for a pond I could travel to easily and yearned to sit and watch ducks and geese and whatever waterfowl might also pop in for a visit.

So, that's what I did. 

I sat still.

Quiet. 

And I watched the birds and dreamed a bit about how fun it would be to live near this spot and walk the circumference of the pond and enjoy the water, trees, and the birds. 

We left the park and went to The Scoop ice cream parlor on W. 25th and Monroe, thus wrapping up our outing with delicious and refreshing ice cream. 

3. Back home, Debbie slow cooked a chuck roast on the stove top which she then turned into a superb beef and egg noodle dish. 

This delicious bowl of my favorite cut of beef, some vegetables, noodles, and a savory broth, brought this significant and fulfilling day to a close. 

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-24-2026: Salsa, Fresh Salad, Remembering and Laughing

 1. All I really wanted for breakfast this morning was salsa. I boiled red potatoes cut into chunks, fried them with onion and mushrooms, and then scrambled four eggs. Debbie wanted this breakfast, too. She was also hungry for salsa. The Trader Joe's salsa I bought last Friday is a little hotter than medium and I loved it on this mess of food I prepared. 

2. All I really wanted at dinner time was a fresh garden salad and I fixed myself one with the vegetables Debbie had cut up yesterday and some romaine lettuce. I ate this salad after enjoying a serving of elbow macaroni and all I really wanted on the macaroni was butter, pepper, and Parmesan cheese. 

That worked. 

3. All I really wanted to do when I read Rich Brock's miraculous response to one of my 3BTs yesterday was make him laugh. 

First, the miracle. I wrote yesterday about things I used to know but that have, in Billy Collins' words, "decided to retire to the southern hemisphere of the brain". I've forgotten them. 

As an example, I wrote that I had forgotten the starting lineup of the 1968 San Francisco Giants, a fact, even as it changed during the season, that I could have rattled off during the explosive summer of my 14 year old season in Babe Ruth as easily as I breathed. 

Miraculously, Rich went to a Giants/Reds game in the tumultuous summer of 1968 and still had the scorecard and sent me the Giants' starting lineup from that day. 

It was a miracle! 

Reading those names reminded me of when, at Whitworth, Rich and I could just say the names of certain players, and, thanks to their mediocrity or what they looked like on a baseball card, we'd make each other laugh just by saying Don Mossi or Gus Triandos. 

So, when I commented back to Rich with the names George Alucik, Claude Raymond, Bobby Bolin and others, all I really wanted to do was make him laugh. 

It worked.  

He answered with the names Clay Dalrymple and Frank Taveras. 

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Tuesday, March 24, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-23-2026: Bursts in the Kitchen, Moroccan Family Dinner, Family Dinner Invigoration

1. I'd have to say that Debbie and I take over the kitchen in bursts. Debbie is on a burst right now. She volunteered without pause to fix hummus, our contribution to tonight's Moroccan family dinner, chopped up a cornucopia of vegetables for future salads, and purchased a chuck roast at Yoke's which she has already planned to fix for Wednesday's dinner. 

2. Lately, Carol has had a burst of ideas for family dinner when it's been hers and Paul's turn to host. The last time she hosted we had an Asian meal focused on miso congee and tonight she created a menu of Moroccan food. 

At the center of our dinner was Carol's Moroccan Vegetable Tangine seasoned with spices I cannot name, but that were wondrously delicious. Christy contributed a superb Rice Pilaf and Debbie prepared a distinctive Moroccan Hummus that went beautifully with a flatbread Carol prepared called Aloo Paratha. 

Carol offered us a bowl of almonds and figs for dessert, a perfect conclusion to this tasty and, at least to me, adventurous meal. 

3. It turned out that Debbie and Paul are both using apps to learn languages. Debbie is chipping away at German and Paul has dived into French. The news of their ventures opened up one of my favorite family dinner discussions of all time as we talked about how different languages function, the relation of languages like French, German, and Latin to English, and what approaches to learning a new language work best. 

I realized during this discussion how much I've forgotten over the last nearly fifty years since the study of English grammar, German for reading knowledge, French, and even a summer of Latin study was a central part of my academic life along with studying literature. 

I wasn't particularly good at language study, but I learned a lot that fascinated me. Over the years, in the same way I can no longer name the starting lineup for the 1968 San Francisco Giants, things I once knew have receded and tonight I missed having had that knowledge, but the discussion invigorated me and some of what I used to know began to wake up.  

It also invigorated me after Debbie opened her Christmas gifts 🎄🎅🤶 when Paul came over where I was sitting and had me read a passage from Days of Awe and Wonder,  a book by Marcus Borg, a now deceased emeritus professor at Oregon State University and a Christian thinker and scholar to whom I owe a great debt of gratitude for his clear, sane, generous, and wide-minded writing about Christianity. 



Monday, March 23, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-22-2026: Leonard Oakland Reads Billy Collins, Momentary Fright, Debbie Cooks Pork Chops

 1. At 10:00 this morning, via the magic of streaming, I listened to Leonard Oakland's Sunday morning radio program, "Morning Classical" at spokanepublicradio.org. He played a series of familiar and often uplifting compositions and he read a superb poem by Billy Collins entitled, "Sunday Morning with the Sensational Nightingales". The poem took us into the joyful experience of hearing certain music that makes us soar. To read this ecstatic poem, go to the bottom of this post. 

2. I think this happened after midnight early Sunday morning. I was sleeping peacefully and suddenly the sound of footsteps in the house startled me awake. I knew those footsteps were human and it wasn't Gibbs prancing around. I was a little rattled. Who could possibly be walking just outside where I sleep? Suddenly my head cleared.

Oh yeah. 

Debbie's back home.  

3. So, yes, I'm getting used to not being alone in the house at night and during the day. 

Today, Debbie told me she'd fix dinner tonight. 

I loved hearing this. 

While I enjoy cooking and rarely ate out while Debbie was gone, Debbie has approaches to cooking that are different from mine and she dreams up and prepares meals I'd never think of.

They are always superb. 

Tonight, she prepared pork chops in a cream of mushroom sauce with spinach and made a terrific side combining red potatoes, green beans, chicken broth, and bacon. I might have missed ingredients in these descriptions, but you get the idea. 

Sharing tasks. 

It makes being back under the same roof enjoyable and often restful. 


Sunday Morning with the Sensational Nightingales

It was not the five Mississippi Blind Boys
who lifted me off the ground
that Sunday morning
as I drove down for the paper, some oranges, and bread.
Nor was it the Dixie Hummingbirds
or the Soul Stirrers, despite their quickening name,
or even the Swan Silvertones
who inspired me to look over the commotion of trees
into the open vault of the sky. 

No, it was the Splendid Nightingales
who happened to be singing on the gospel
station early that Sunday morning
and must be credited with the bumping up
of my spirit, the arousal of the mice within.

I have always loved this harmony,
like four, sometimes five trains running
side by side over a contoured landscape --
make that a shimmering, red-dirt landscape,
wildflowers growing along the silver tracks,
lace tablecloths covering the hills,
the men and women in white shirts and dresses
walking in the direction of a tall steeple.
Sunday morning in a perfect Georgia. 
But I am not here to describe the sound
of the falsetto whine, sepulchral bass,
alto and tenor fitted snugly in between;
Only to witness my own minor ascension
that morning as they sang, so parallel,
about the usual themes,
the garden of suffering,
the beads of blood on the forehead,
the stone before the hillside tomb,
and the ancient rolling waters
we would all have to cross some day. 

God bless the Sensational Nightingales,
I thought as I turned up the volume, 
God bless their families and their powder blue suits.
They are a far cry from the quiet kneeling
I was raised with,
a far, hand-clapping cry from the candles
that glowed in the alcoves
and the fixed eyes of saints staring down
from their corners.

Oh, my cap was on straight that Sunday morning
and I was fine keeping the car on the road.
No one would ever have guessed
I was being lifted into the air by nightingales,
hoisted by their beaks like a long banner
that curls across an empty blue sky,
caught up in the annunciation
of these high, most encouraging tidings.

 -- Billy Collins


Sunday, March 22, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-21-2026: Valerie's Celebration of Life, Meeting Debbie at The Lounge, Together is Good

 1. This afternoon Ed and I traveled together to the Blackwell Hotel in Coeur d'Alene to attend the Celebration of Life for our KHS Class of 1972 classmate, Valerie Saari (her married name: Valerie Young). Valerie lived just a block north of us once our family moved, in June of 1962, to the house Debbie and I now live in. So Valerie was a neighborhood friend as well as a fellow student at Sunnyside Elementary, Kellogg Junior High School, and Kellogg High School. 

I loved seeing all the members of our graduating class who attended -- Stu counted at least sixteen of us. 

This Celebration of Life also took me back to my first memories as a child. 

Valerie's older sister, Cheryl, is married to Bill Papesh. Bill and his step-siblings Deidre and Craig Lenhart lived next door to us when we moved into the house at 14 E. Portland. 

Craig, Bill, Cheryl, and Valerie's other sister, Joanie, were all present today and to them I was still Billy Woolum! They all chuckled at calling me Billy and switched to calling me Bill, but it was fun feeling like I was a little boy again! 

Craig Lenhart and I hadn't seen each other for over fifty years and we fell into easy and long conversation about all kinds of subjects related to when we were next door neighbors, to our days as ball players in Kellogg and, for Craig, in Spokane Valley, some of our experiences as Boy Scouts, mutual friends, and other things. 

Seeing Craig, talking with him for so long and so openly, in addition to being with life long friends from the Class of '72, talking with Chris Blickensderfer Fadness, another neighborhood friend from the old days on Sunnyside, seeing Valerie's sisters, and hearing Joanie's kind words about Valerie as she welcomed us all to this gathering made for a most uplifting and intense afternoon. 

2. On the way back to the Silver Valley, Ed and I talked about how much we enjoyed this afternoon in memory of Valerie. 

I discovered, as Ed headed into his house, that Debbie texted me that she was at The Lounge. 

So I drove right there. 

Jake, Mayo, and Craig King also came from the Celebration of Life to The Lounge and absorbed themselves in Gonzaga's men's basketball team losing its second round NCAA tournament game to Texas. 

I yakked with Debbie off and on between conversations with others and she and I continued to get caught up with each other and even began to speculate a bit about what lies ahead for us in 2026.

3. It probably goes without saying, but here I go: I'm enjoying being back under the same roof with Debbie. We can talk about things when we want to. It's good to be back sharing cooking and other household tasks. Put simply, it lightens things up all the way around to be back together. 

Saturday, March 21, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-20-2026: Debbie Arrives, House Cleaning, French Dip at Capone's

 1.  Debbie's travels have not always been smooth, but today was the exception. Her flights out of Newark and Denver left on time and she arrived in Spokane shortly after 9:00 and climbed into the Camry not long after that. What a relief. We had an easy trip from GEG to Kellogg where Gibbs and Debbie enjoyed a very happy reunion 

2. For most of the day before I left Kellogg, I continued cleaning house and kept finding different things that needed my attention. I didn't get to everything, but I felt pretty good about the floors, counters, stove, and Copper's living areas. 

3. I went to Coeur d'Alene before Spokane and didn't find what I was looking for at Costco -- no problem -- but did pick up a few items at Trader Joe's. 

When Ed and I went to Capone's last week, he ordered French dip that looked terrific and so I went in and ordered one today with a salad. 

I ordered the Chef's Choice with Swiss cheese, onions, and mushrooms and it was a great dinner. 

In summary, a great day: successful house cleaning, easy travels for Debbie, yakking with Debbie from Spokane to Kellogg, a joyful reunion for Debbie and Gibbs, and a tasty dinner at Capone's. 

And now I have a roommate again! 


Thursday, March 19, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-19-2026: It's About Time, It's About Time II, Corned Beef Dinner from Christy

1. I arrived home Wednesday and after a while it didn't seem like the living room was properly heating up, mainly because the heat wasn't blowing into the room with the force it usually does. I pondered this problem and suddenly leveled foul language at myself! I realized I had forgotten to change the furnace's filter. I rumbled to the basement where I thought I still had filters, but I was wrong. 

This afternoon, after a guy came, sized up a job Debbie wants done, left, and I hustled to Ace and bought two filters. Back home, I replaced the filter that should have come out during the Cuban Missile Crisis. 

When the furnace kicked on, the heat blasted out in the usual way and I was happy that I could text Debbie and tell her "I fixed the furnace today." 🤣🤣

I hope this all holds up. 

2. I also took everything out of the refrigerator and cleaned the interior. It was another long overdue job and it's great having a spiffy fridge again.

3. Christy cooked a belated corned beef, cabbage, carrots, and baby red potatoes dinner and gave me a generous portion of her work. One look and I knew I wouldn't eat it all, so I have a second dinner to look forward to at lunch tomorrow. 

Three Beautiful Things 03-18-2026: Casino Visit Already Covered, Flip Flop, No Brackets This Year

1. The post I wrote on Wednesday evening about March 17th made it sound like Ed and I went to the casino on St. Patrick's Day. We actually went today and anything I have to say about our trip is already posted on my 03-17-2026 entry.  

2. Having been gone all morning and half the afternoon meant that I carried out my usual morning routine of puzzle solving late in the afternoon and on into the evening. 

3. For the second year in a row, I decided, reluctantly, not to participate in Doug and Sharann Watson's annual March Madness Weighted Bracket Pool. 

It's fun, but I decided not to add something else to my life this week and I would have pretty much submitted a parody entry anyway since I haven't watched any basketball games this season nor have I followed the season very much at all. 

Now if it were a bracket of great classical music compositions, I think I would have given that a shot! 

Wednesday, March 18, 2026

Three Beautiful Things 03-17-2026: Insomnia? Watch Videos, Martha Stewart and God, *California Split* and Emptiness

 1. As March 16th turned into the 17th at midnight, I was wide awake and it would be another two and a half hours or so before I went to sleep. I worked the daily Wordle puzzle. I listened to Imogen Sara Smith talk for about twenty minutes about the film director Howard Hawks. I listened to Sean Fennessey give a talk about film director Robert Altman. I listened to Charlie Rose interview Robert Altman about the movie The Player and then listened to another Charlie Rose interview, this time with Mike Leigh, Brenda Blethyn, and Marianne Jean-Baptiste. They discussed the movie Secrets and Lies

The Player (1992) and Secrets and Lies (1996) were two of my favorite movies thirty or more years ago.

I admire and enjoy how Robert Altman and Mike Leigh make movies -- they give their actors a wide range of freedom to develop their characters. Characters emerge from inside the actors rather than from a script and the result is a rare kind of authenticity and movies that are challenging and unorthodox. 

2. I napped about four different times today. In between naps, I continued, but didn't quite finish, cleaning up the kitchen. I felt gratitude that my adventures with SPICY beef broth didn't wreck our family St. Patrick's dinner and I reveled in the comments people made to me online about my farcical day in the kitchen that seemed, in the end. to have been rescued by a combination of Martha Stewart and the hand of Providence. 

3. I might be, at least for the time being, moving toward some balance in my enjoyment of the arts. For several months, I've been focused on classical music, not only listening to it, but reading more about it and listening to a series of lectures in the Great Courses series. 

This single-minded focus on classical music led me, however, back to poetry, especially a I returned to a half-forgotten anthology of poems I purchased about five years ago, The Music Lover's Poetry Anthology

Tonight I added a little more variety and returned to another love of my life, the movies. 

Those videos I watched about Robert Altman inspired me to watch his movie, California Split (1974). 

After I the movie ended, I went to kelloggbloggin and discovered I had watched this movie back on August 7, 2021. 

In the ensuing four and half years, the movie had almost completely left my memory, so I had the pleasure of watching it tonight almost as if I'd never seen it before. 

I had quite a bit to say about California Split back in August of 2021 and I had much the same response to the movie tonight. You can read my original response as my third BT here

I don't blame you a bit if you don't want to wade through what I wrote before, so here's a very condensed version of what I experienced watching this movie. 

I often wonder if we are born into emptiness and if the span of our lives is a long effort to fill the void within ourselves and make meaning, find enjoyment, and author our own purpose in life. 

I thought that was the story of the four main characters in this move. Two of them are prostitutes and the other two are gamblers, one a professional and the other more of a compulsive gambler. 

I've never gambled at the level the gamblers featured in this movie do.

I went to the Spokane Tribe Casino today with Ed so we could make our very modest bets on the NCAA men's and, in my case, the women's NCAA basketball tournaments. 

I was not seeking an adrenaline rush today. 

I was seeking relaxation and some laughs. 

I relaxed at the coffee shop with a thick slice of banana bread with nuts and a 20 oz latte. 

I wandered around the floor of the casino and many of the games I played made me laugh with their animations and gimmicks.

After playing a while, I relaxed in the Sportsbook area, long after I wagered on Arizona's men's team and UConn's women and enjoyed a smashburger and fries with a small Pepsi. My lunch was on the house thanks to my player card and the fact that today, like all Wednesdays at this emporium, was Senior Appreciation Day. 

Ed joined me, enjoyed a hot dog, and we had a relaxing conversation. 

I returned to the casino floor down twenty dollars and when I was done playing, I was even. 

Did this give me a sense of elation? No.

Was I looking to spinning reels for joy? As a way to get pumped up? As a way to fill emptiness inside me? 

No. No. No. 

But, if you watch California Split, I think you'll see that these gamblers were not relaxing, laughing, eating banana bread, or enjoying small pleasures like a latte or the music playing on the sound system or a burger and fries at lunch. 

They were looking to drink from a well that can never quench their thirst.